my gf of 8 years just left me 3 days ago.We broke up 6 months ago but have been back together for just under 3 months.She just wants to be able to do things without ties for a while.She is going overseas for a couple of weeks soon and hopes to find work and stay for a few months.She still loves me and thinks i'm a great guy and i know she means it and i know she does not want another boyfriend.Because it was the 2nd breakup i told her i did not want to hear from her or see her so i can move on.That upset her but she said ok, now im worried she may never contact me again.We also have a house together so eventually will have to sort that out.My heart tells me there is still a lot there but it just isnt the right time.Should i just back off and move on for now and give her time to sort things out, let her discover what she wants.I definately dont want to force her back or push her away,i think we rushed back together last time.Whats the best thing to do in this situation?
2007-02-04 15:15:27 · 2 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You sound pretty level headed. I would do exactly what you are considering doing.....just let her go overseas and live her life for awhile, and let her sort things out. You can also do some sorting out of your own while she's gone. You can write to her or email her while she's gone, and she you. This trip could be the best thing for both of you. When she comes back, you'll know for certain whether the two of you were meant to be or not. Take care, and good luck to the both of you.
2007-02-04 15:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you? yea right, if she loved you then she wouldn't leave you
just move on and stop being an idiot about things
2007-02-04 23:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋