the "romance" phase is over I am seeking the love and attention of others. What is wrong with me?
2007-02-04 15:15:05 · 4 answers · asked by ask me 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It sounds like low self esteem. You require the constant gratification of having someone tell you how great you are, and when that fades as life goes on and things get a little mundane you seek it elsewhere if whoever you are with slips and doesnt give you your daily dose of ego boost. Learn to love and accept yourself in a healthy way before you seek love from someone else.
2007-02-04 15:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you had a traumatic childhood. Maybe it's not the love and attention you are seeking as much as the challenge or chase. If you have been through alot of chaos as a child, the boredom of normal life is hard for you to accept. Nothing is "wrong" with you but you should seek out a professional to talk to. It will help.
2007-02-05 06:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by himaintance75 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer: you have self-esteem issues. You need so much that no matter how giving and loving your partner is, that person is eventually drained of any ability to care for you.
You need therapy. Yesterday.
2007-02-04 23:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't let the romance phase to get over....
if there has been a gap....then get it kickstarted....
bet upon variety...
never get bored of a particular routine.....focus on everything...
your music interest....taste....dressing....dvd's....
there's a lot to explore!!
2007-02-05 02:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by antoants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋