2007-02-04 15:04:50 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i believe it is a mixture of both.Choices that i make is because i decide to stay away from ppl due to really hard circumstances i have dealt with in times past.It is a coping mechanism i have developed over the short span of my life.I have found it hard to talk to ppl because i was abused and mistreated as a child.Now i am currenly out of that position in life but because of my past circumstances ad the immobilizing fear i have from when i was around a really mean family i now choose to shy away from people.It keeps me from being hurt alas i feel sad alot too.
2007-02-04 15:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because i don't like getting close to people so when they get close i push them away. And now they stay away.
Which sucks because i used to be "popular" though that word means nothing. because they were fake which is probably why i am like this now...
I don't know which that falls under.
Moving soon so hopefully i am going to make that CHOICE and make a fresh start.. make myself un-lonely
But i do like to be alone half the time. Nothing beats sitting on the top of something like a cliff or a hill or a pier and just looking out and getting lost in your thoughts.
2007-02-04 15:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not lonely, just alone.
And it's by choice. It brings a certain "peace" that is difficult to define. My solitude has afforded me the serenity that some only dream of. Don't get me wrong, I still have family, friends, and acquaintances who are a strong force in my life and I am very thankful for them.
2007-02-04 15:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋