i need immediate help i have not invited to attend the sister's daughter marriage but parents are forcing me to attend the same. My sister have made my life miserable and pitty by so many things.
2007-02-04 14:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by gm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they threaten to dare cosequence of this
2007-02-05 21:22:56 · update #1
My attitude after years of my family not inviting me is I now completely wipe anyone who does not invite me. I would not go and never speak to them again
2007-02-04 14:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not sure what exactly you are asking, but I will try my best.
Are you saying that your sister has not invited you to attend her daughter's wedding and your Parents are forcing you to attend, and you do not know if you should since this sister has made your life miserable.
I would talk to your niece, since she is the one getting married.
Tell her you have not received an invitation to her wedding, and ask her if she sent it and if it could have got lost in the mail. Tell her you would love to attend. Since she is your niece I assume you would love to attend her wedding. Let your niece know that you hold nothing against her and that what has happened between you and her mother, you hold nothing against her and you will reply back as soon as you have received her invitation. Just be polite remember, it is not her fault that her mother has made your life miserable.
If her reply is that she and her mother have not sent you a invitation than you know where you stand, and give her your best wishes for a Happy Marriage and then ask her to talk to your parents so that they too will know that you are not invited and will leave you alone about attending. I would sent her a small gift just the same even if you are not invited, for she is your niece and someday you want her to remember you as a good and loving aunt. Do good and it will come back to you.
I hope this helps. Good Luck.. and may your niece offer you a invitation to a Happy Day at her Wedding
2007-02-04 15:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what ever your sister did has made you feel bitter inside and this had happened a long time ago, you need to just forgive her. Otherwise, this will eat you up inside.
You don't need to attend the wedding if you don't want to. But, if your sister has invited you, then you should be there, this could start off with a new relationship with your sister as well. Don't let the past get in the way with your relationship with your sister. (smile)
2007-02-04 15:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your clarification is smart. perchance also she change into dissatisfied with the suddenness of the marriage and as a change of taking it gracefully, she acted out. I truthfully trust you, it would not look she had any reason to boycott your wedding ceremony. And it truly is comprehensible she ought to now feel embarrassment about her moves. human beings must have idea it change into unusual she change into no longer in attendance, in all likelihood began up a great number of gossip. I do desire you despatched your mom a paper invitation as well to the verbal invite, then you fairly can say you probably did what you'll have finished and it change into her determination to attend...or no longer.
2016-11-02 08:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand your question.....are you saying you haven't been invited by your sister to attend HER wedding but your parents are forcing you to attend? And that your sister has made your life miserable? How old are you and do you still live with them?
2007-02-04 15:00:34 · answer #5 · answered by ncgrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your saying that you don't want to attend the wedding but your parents forcing you? if that is the problem then you should go. Even though she has made your life miserable that doesn't mean that you have to make her life miserable. I suggest you go and congratulate her and enjoy the party.
2007-02-04 14:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by zeloswilder1995 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up...you don't really need to say that much except...congratulations, you both look great (to your NIECE and her husband! Its not your sister's wedding BTW!), hope you have a wonderful life together. Sit there, listen to the service...or think about next week...go to the reception, eat food, chat with people you like (if you want)...then leave early.
Get your niece a nice gift.
2007-02-04 14:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you a minor that your parents are still forcing you to do things?
If you are an adult, make an adult decision - if you don't like the person, don't go, period. It is not bad manners to refuse to subject yourself to a situation that makes you miserable.
It is called taking charge of your life. If your parents want to go to the wedding, let them knock their socks off, you- rent a movie or do something YOU want to do.
Cut the apron strings and be an adult. I give you permission :)
2007-02-04 14:58:55 · answer #8 · answered by PD 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would be your neice. You should go to the wedding with your parents as part of their invitation. How your sister made you feel doesn't mean you should take it out on your neice. Go, enjoy, be respectful.
2007-02-04 14:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't attend a wedding if I wasn't invited; sometimes they are intentionally small because of venue size.
2007-02-04 14:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by CanadianBlondie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋