What do I do about this girl who has been bullying me at school?

Question

at school there is this girl who always trash talks me she says things behind my back every single day for the past 3 months or so and she has other people in on it as well,i've never done a thing to this girl she used to be so nice to me at the beginning of the school year & then one day all of a sudden she started acting bitchy to me,my dad told me to ignore it but its hard i've been having to sit there & listen to her **** for a long time and have done nothing about it until recentley i went to my school counselor and she talked to security for me and monday they are going to call her in & talk to her,thing is she doesn't know i've been complaining about it so when she finds out things are going to get worse for me she is gonna go tell everybody & they're all gonna be after me since she's friends with everyone i told security it'll get worse but they promised me it wouldn't but i know otherwise
so what should i do about this situation??

thanks

i'm not really a fighter i was never shown how to fight or what to do correctly i am weak i guess so i can't fight her physically my friends i do have are the same so they can't help me either so i'm alone in this whole situation i didn't want to be a rat and usually i stay quiet about everything but this time i just couldn't take it anymore this whole problem with this stupid girl started because of her friend shay she is the one who started trash talking me first and because the girl who is bulling me now is friends with shay she copied her and the thing is shay used to be the same way she was very nice to me in the beginning of the school year but one day all of a sudden she started acting like a smart *** i've never done a thing to her either,shay hasn't said anything about me anymore but elisa still is & she also has this other girl saying crap about me that i have an attitude problem and things like that when i've never talked to this girl this girl doesn't even know me!

Answer 1

You need to stand up to her/confront her. Don't like make it end it into a fight or nothing. Just don' t let her talk about you like that because then she thinks she can get away wit it and that u weak. And that`sz fa real. i had the same problem wit the biotch last yearr. AND TALKIN TO ADULTS NEVER AND I MEAN NEVER WORK THEY ALWAYS SAY TO IGNORE THEM. and itsz tru that wut happen to my sis and things got worse

Answer 2

Your school should have some type of policy regarding bullying. If done the right way, you should have a support net. Talk to your father, let him know that the school is going to push the issue on Monday. Tell him that you are upset and don't want more trouble. As long as the confrontations are not physical, I don't think that they can do too much other than document that they spoke with this person and informed them that certain behaviors will not be tolerated. But the idea is to stop the situation from getting to the point of physical violence.

Be strong, and remain yourself.

Answer 3

ive been through this b4
they dont tell them ppl are jerks these days they make fun of u for the dumbest reason they make fun of me cuz im big if im standing next to a 094t493 pound person they would pick on me and i never know why there jealous cuz u have something they dont have or it makes them feel good im glad u told hopefully u would b able to tell the princpal they do the worst suffering with out them knowing!

Answer 4

Tell an adult at the school, or tell the kid's parents.