Hi I am a man that has been married for over 20 years. My wife dosent seem to want me. we have a good relationship and we talk but she dosaent want to get romantic with me. She says that she is going through medapause and I should understand. What am I to do? What should I know and how to deal with it? Hyme
2007-02-04 14:08:19 · 7 answers · asked by Hyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get her a copy of "The Sexy Years" by Suzanne Somers. Your wife needs hormones- easy to fix and she'll feel like a new woman.
http://www.amazon.com/Sexy-Years-Discover-Connection-Vitality/dp/0609607219
2007-02-04 14:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be aware that both her physical and emotional behaviors change. Medication may help the physical side.
Women may consider menopause a milestone beyond which they are now "old", a notion many can't accept gracefully. Depending on how old you are, your wife may pick on you if you don't look your age and are attractive. If you are already an old fart, she may feel depressed and gloomy being with you.
It is said that regular exercise will help both physical and emotional issues. Hopefully, your age is there but good health sure makes you feel younger.
2007-02-04 14:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her body is changing and so are her hormones... Give her some time and space and love her for where she is at and be supportive to her and by her side through this. Hold her when she needs to be held. Have her go to a doctor and maybe he can help put her on medication or something to help with her moods and maybe even them out some. I wish you the best. You may also need counseling to help you understand this too!
2007-02-04 14:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Menopause can cause her desire to drop. But, the doctor has hormones that she can take to improve that. Also, there are herbal remedies instead of hormones. You might check with the People's Pharmacy for herbal remedies if she doesn't want to take hormones.
2007-02-04 14:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to go to a doctor about hormone replacement therapy and if that doesn't help just prepare yourself for mood swings, loss of and over stimulation of sex drive.
2007-02-04 14:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by n0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have mood swings and cranky and hotflashes and don't feel like being bothered bout like going threw a period
2007-02-08 08:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you have to give her time. Make sure her meds are correct and she is taking them. She also has to consider your feelings too.
2007-02-04 14:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Big D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋