Actually, a card is perfect. People who are very giving and caring don't want anything in return. If you give her a thank you card and write a short note telling her how much you appreciate all of her help, she won't think you're cheap and she will treasure that card forever.
2007-02-04 14:00:59
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answered by No Shortage 7
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a card is a lovely idea. add a note to it telling her what an inspiration she has been to you and how she has affected your life!
if you are on a budget bake something for her........cookies, cake, baklava is an easy thing to make and it looks sensational!
or what about a book? what is she interested in? there are lots of great books out there. a book of inspirational short stories, or poetry. perhaps a book of photographs? there are some beautiful coffe table type books.
or if she has a garden, what about a beautiful shrub or flowering plant of some sort. a perennial would be wonderful as it would come back year after year and she would think of you everytime it bloomed!
it sounds as though you mean a great deal to each other and i think its wonderful that you have found a new friend!
good luck and i am sure she will love whatever you choose to give her!
2007-02-12 11:11:15
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answered by tess 4
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I would a "friends day out". Speak causally one about if "i had my dream 4 hour free time to myself one day what i would do.
Really listen to her response if she says "oh- i would go get my nails done, stop for a mocha latte on way out and go see a movie",
a few days later give her a letter-with 2 movie tickets in it- 1 for you and 1 for her, go to the movie, and as you leave say thanks for all your help, your generous heart, and your helpful hands, and speaking of hands, now we are going to grab a mocha latte, and go get those hands spolied rotten, like you always said you wanted to do.
Thank her and I am sure she would appreciate it. And mention to her in words and again in a hand written letter- what an impression she's made on you and how you feel about all she's done. If you think she's too busy (KIDS< NO BABYSITTER) etc- and that pullng a friends afternoon might be impossible- go about it like this- tell her what you want to do- and either make a date she picks where she can works a schedule or say hey lets get together for a few fun hours outside of class- and just treat her- when the bill comes- grab it and say a small token of appreciation for all you've done- or at the movies- grab the ticket dealer and tell her it's one me and the yummies too. Know if you know she's strapped for cash- maybe a gift card (american express, local grocery store, or a movie theater tickets gift for her and a guest of her chooseing might be the way to go) or a coupon book of like ( 1 nights free babysitting so you and significat other on me for all the help you've given me.
Many times people forget the simplest things can be that a mere gesture is often the most appreciates.
A note to the college dean.class professor like Mrs. so and so has helped me more then you cold imagine and i think she could be a great assest to the college as a paid staff tutor for those students like myself who were needing of assistance.
2007-02-10 17:56:39
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answered by KATHEYCARCRASHER 2
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You could get her a gift card at her favorite restaurant and put it in a nice card and slip it half way in one of her books where she will find it. I bet she would think that was really sweet of you.
2007-02-11 16:24:44
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answered by LuvnLife 3
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Give her a nice card with some flowers. Every girl loves getting flowers even older ones. Then she can have something nice in her home on her table that reminds her of your gratitude.
2007-02-04 14:58:52
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answered by pearl28 2
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A card would be great, add to it, flowers, gift card, and/or invite her to brunch, lunch, dinner, I'm sure she'd appreciate your thoughtfulness. We all like to be thought of in special ways.
2007-02-04 16:01:54
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answered by interested 2
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you can never really go wrong with a gift card, but if you dont want her to know how much you spent, than get her a nice floral arrangement, but flowers do die, i know. how bout, treating her to lunch. people like that are hard to come by. especially if they dont want anything in return.
2007-02-09 22:33:09
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answered by xtal6872 3
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i in my opinion imagine that this isn't accepted... Aunt/Nephew? :S it is incest!! you'll have suggested cousins, then perchance, notwithstanding the aunt is the guardian's sister, how can she do stuff like that consisting of her sister or brother's boy? :S The nephew WILL watch her, it is inevitable. yet from his area, it is type of accepted: bare older woman. yet she's the guy who might want to pay interest to what she does, and it type of feels to me that her sex matters consisting of her nephew are literally not innocuous, there is something in the back of them. Now if she change into talking to him like a mom talked to her son, it ought to were accepted, yet no longer therefore, it truly is sick! :S i imagine she knows he watches her, and he or she needs him to, because you suggested that typically he touches her deepest section and he or she would not merchandise. If it wasn't the case, then we would have idea that it change into no longer her fault, notwithstanding it would not look like it the following... yet i wager 27, he's an human being, and loose to do as he pleases. nevertheless, it is extraordinarily discusting! :S
2016-11-02 08:31:57
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answered by nocera 4
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maybe an angel, like a guardian angel pin, or statue,since shes been there for you.and a card letting her know how-much she means to you, and your glad that she's part of your life?i think anything you choose would be nice and she'll be happy.maybe she is your guardian angel?
2007-02-12 07:32:06
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answered by debbie d 4
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if she nice like you say then automatically the thought is what really counts but me i would go out of my way and do something creative like make a card and invite her to dinner
2007-02-11 12:29:15
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answered by hu314a 1
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