It's kind of bothering, they just stop talking to me for some reason. Don't know why, probably because Im shy so for me it makes it harder but they never tried they where also kind of shy. We never share anything interesting. But everytime I see them in the halls, it just feels weird because I don't know why they would just stop talking to me for no reason. So that is why it is bothering me. What can I do?
2007-02-04 13:46:10 · 5 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't forget about them, just smile and say hi when you see them in the hallways and move on with your day. If they stopped talking to you, because they thought you weren't friendly, this will show them otherwise. And it's always better to kill them with kindness. Even if you don't end up being friends, at least you took the high road.
Good luck.
2007-02-04 13:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by LifesAMystery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can ask them why they have stopped talking to you, if it is bothering you so much. Time to learn how to stop being so shy. Being shy is an excuse. Sounds like you are in high school or middle school. That is the time to start practicing people skills and this is one of them. I know its hard but it is better than not knowing what is going on.
You have to go through this your whole life. Practice now when it doesn't mean a job or romance is on the line. You may not like the response to your question but you may learn something about yourself from it. Or, you may just learn something about the acquaintance.
2007-02-04 21:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are in high school or college. Do as I always told my kids, "Speak to everyone, those that speak back, will be your friends." Say hello, hold yor head high, act as if you have the world by the tail. You will connect with the ones you are supposed to. Good Luck to you. Always remember, portray confidence and good things will follow. May all your wishes come true!!
2007-02-04 23:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by jolynn0880 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SMILE ! it is the best way to say nothing and mean everything .
2007-02-04 21:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them first. say hi. they'll start talking to u if u try talking to them.
2007-02-04 21:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋