I like this older man?

Question

I am 32. He is 53, handsome, succesful, funny, charming. He married once a model from switzerland after 2 years of long disttance relationship. He DIVORCED after 10 days. He told me he could not take it.
We have known each other for almost 2 years (friends) but i was always taken until now. He completely showed interest in me from the second moment we see each other.
We have interests in common. It seems as he likes me very much. And we are certainly emotionally involved, but i am not sure if it is a good idea to believe him. We live close. We take art lessons together. But he confessed that he is in a long-distance relationship with this 27 years old New Yorker for over a year. They see each other every 3 weeks. But keeps on telling that is only a long distance relationship and that he wants to start dating me. However, for his characteristics everything sounds like he is the typical "fear of commitment" guy. BUT DAMN, I LIKE HIM. What do you think i should do?

Answer 1

The age difference is too big. When he gets older, he will start having health issues you don't want to have to deal with. You need to stick with men your age.

Answer 2

Sounds like a player to me. An old player. When he is too old to do anything you'll just be ready to live. Think about that. I work with a guy that makes moves on girls of all ages. He's their best friend. He knew when he saw them they were going to have a special relationship. He writes them little letters. He calls them and they chat and laugh.He is a confidence man. Only thing is that he don't want their money. He just wants sex. Even if its just once. A long distance relationship is no differnet than any other. What he's saying is "I'm doin this other girl but its not real handy for me."

Answer 3

Being close to his age Long distance relationship seeing each other every 3 week???hum???What part of long distance seems to have shorten.I think you need to re think this guy.Find someone that doesn't play head games.
Take care and be safe .Hope this helps
By the way Hi

Answer 4

I don't think that is such a good idea. Just think where will you guys be 10-15 years from now. When you're 40-45 you are going to want to still have fun and he will be about 60! The big age difference is what made my parent have a divorce. My mom is 42 now and my dad is 60 and doesn't have that much energy anymore to go out or do anything!

Answer 5

Nothing wrong with the age difference you both are old enough and mature enough to handle this situation. As far as the other woman is he serious about this relationship or is she just a side dish until he finds someone else? Be prepared to get hurt if he decides to stay with the 27 year old woman.

Answer 6

I only read up to the part where he divorced his ex.

That's ALL I had to read up to.

Whoever divorces in 10 days is a loser.

Don't bother going after the old weirdo.

Answer 7

he is an old man looking for a lovely chic in each city. do not fall for it. look at the age difference. he can only see the girl in new york every 3 weeks cause that is how often he gets aroused.

Answer 8

He seems like a player.... Run dont walk away from him.... you can do much better then him! If i were you i would not waste my time and love on this dead end street of a guy. I would move on and keep on a lookin!

Answer 9

Does he have $$$$$$$$$$$$$$? Most younger women who go for oldr, older men like that is because they have money.
If you just want to fool around with him, go for it. you are an adult.
but have you ever married and had kids? Has he? If he has and is now divorced are you willing to give up that if you wanted those things? men that are much older like have had their married life and now want to enjoy life with single women and have fun....
Good luck.

Answer 10

Take it slow because a man that age is going to be hard to change in some ways and if you don't want your feelings hurt take it slow.