Are you selling yourself short by being with someone who prefers different than you?

Question

But they settled down with you anyway even though they like a different "look" better ??

Like for instance...You're blond ,but yourpartner prefersbrunettes or redheads.Or you're skin is light ,but your partner prefers dark.

Answer 1

Why would he be with you if he wanted someone else?

I think you both need to step back and ask yourselves some hard questions.

Bottom line......if you don't feel good about yourself then you have a problem

Answer 2

You have some major issues.
If your mate chose you, then there must be something other than hair color,skin color and height that attracted them to you in the first place.
It's what's on the inside that counts.
Be happy with your self first and the rest will follow.
You can always change your hair color , but your you because of who you are on the inside, not by appearance.

Answer 3

If he normally prefers a different type, than what you are, yet chose you, I doubt it was because he just settled. There must be something or a lot of things, extraordinary about you that makes you the one for him.

Answer 4

First of all do not marry them in the first place if they did not prefer you .... But if you are married to them then make it work unless they want out of the marriage and away from you.

Answer 5

umm....no