My boyfriends parents let his x move onto their property and it is causing problems between us,?

Question

Do you feel that it was disrespectful to me to allow this to happen?
She has no intentions of leaving, and now his parents are angry with me for expecting her to seek other living arrangements.
My boyfriend and I live 4 blocks away, and we have always taken care of his parents.
Now she has replaced me in this, although the time when she WAS his girlfriend, she never paid any attention to them whatsoever!
I don't feel comfortable even going over there.
I cannot ask him to stop caring for his parents, I never would, but she is eating this situation up, while attempting to win him back.
And when this offends me, I am afraid I look shallow and insecure, which I am niether, normally.

I am a woman by the way, just using his old yahoo address

Answer 1

They aren't your parents, and you aren't married to your boyfriend. Looks to me like you really have no say in this.

But---you can continue to go over there with him and be a big person about it. She can't win your boyfriend back unless he wants to be won.

You didn't say how old the parents are. Are they mentally capable of making decisions? If they are failing, your boyfriend needs to be aware of just what this ex is doing and what she might do. Many old people can be talked into signing things that they shouldn't. Your BF needs to be on top of this! Good luck.