2007-02-04 13:39:15 · 32 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
theres no trick just be yourself
2007-02-04 13:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by iLL WiLL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Develop a sense of humor and be kind. Find some activities that you really enjoy. This will develop you. Listen to people talk and try to put them at ease. Stop worry about yourself. They may be asking how can they get a girl to like them. It won't matter if have you have a few flaws in the way you look or social status.
If it is a specific guy this will probably work also. Don't go for the old "I will like you if you have sex with me" routine. That is as old as the hills and twice as dusty.
Life has a way of making things work out.
2007-02-04 13:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never force another person to do anything :) That's what the glory of being an individual is all about. However, what you can do is show yourself in the best possible light so that he can see all of your great traits, which he might then be interested in.
Every guy is different. There is no single "guy magnet". So find out about your guy. Does he love baseball? Start wearing baseball shirts, read up on baseball teams, invite him out to a local game. Talk to him about baseball things you've read.
Relationships are based on two people who enjoy being together. So find out what your guy enjoys doing, and then present yourself as someone he could very easily enjoy doing those things WITH.
2007-02-04 13:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you must realize that you can't force a guy to like you. Believe me, I know this. Guys are attracted to certain and not attracted to others, and as a girl, you have to realize this. I'm not saying that this guy you like doesn't feel the same way about you. All I'm saying is if he turns out not to like you, don't get too upset at him or yourself.
But what if he does like you? Well, you should first try to get to know him. Be casual...not too flirty...and try to get him to hang out. Get to know his interests, and let him know yours (it's always the best way to start a convo!) When you hang out, you might wonder what you should wear or how flirty you should be. When it comes to clothes, wear somthing that you feel comfortable in. Don't wear shoes you know you can't walk in or pants that are too tight. Just wear what feels good. Don't cover yourself in make up, because that makes you look desperate. And also, be casual!! Don't get too flirty or girly, because guys are turned off by that. Just be yourself. You will be fine!
2007-02-04 13:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Misscheerios2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. This way you get the right guy instead of one attracted by an "act".
Why do so many people wind up with the wrong person? They ask questions like.... "how do I get a guy 2 like me?"..........
2007-02-04 13:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Common Sense 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a love doctor and I'm having trouble with love myself but I would say to find out what the person likes and do it with them. But if they smoke or anything, don't do it just for him to like you. If he pressures you then he probably isn't the best person for you. You shouldn't worry too much about makeup. If he doesn't like you the way you are, then he isn't good for you. It's the inside that counts not the outside...Good Luck!
2007-02-04 13:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by NinjaX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Never change to impress someone else. It is dishonest and it shows an insecure side of you. IF a guy cannot like you for who you are, then don't waste your time trying to impess him.
Most of all, be confident. Confidence shines within a person and adds to one's beauty
2007-02-04 13:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters, put a nice smile on that pretty face of yours. Second, Learn to be yourself, and don't try to be somebody they want you to be. You have to be yourself, and make some kind of converstion with the guy you are trying to get. If he is the one for you, and he likes you as YOU, then you will be suprised of both of your reactions..........Good Luck
2007-02-04 13:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by Speedbuggy43 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.... well make sure your clean. (hopefully). And you smell good and at least wear deoderant and stuff.... Talk to him if you can. If he likes you then he will probably talk to you a lot too. If he talks with you alot go ahead with the flirting. If hes not buying it then you cant do much just forget aboutit
2007-02-04 13:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by John D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be charming,complimentary,ask more about what he likes and dislikes get to know him ,smile a lot .Be like a best friend .
Most of all be genuine
2007-02-04 13:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go after the kind of guys that find you attractive and interesting to talk to..... Start with "Hi!" and take it from there....
2007-02-04 13:43:30 · answer #11 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋