what are some random but serious conversation starters?

Question

I went out on a...date? last night and felt like I had nothing to say. I blame it on being tired, but also, when I really do like someone, I don't talk much! ughh. I tried to ask a lot about him, but what are some other things to ask/say? I want to be seen as the intelligent person I am, not just some stupid girl that stands still and looks pretty.

Also. Not just for dating. Just conversation starters/restarters for when things get dull.

Answer 1

Here are a few that come to mind off the top of my head -- you can email me if you want more:

Have you heard that a lot of people don't believe that 9-11 was carried out by Al-Queda but was really a plot by the Bush administration to drag us into Iraq so that a lot of money could be made by their powerful cronies?

Or

Have you noticed how american culture is becoming increasingly vapid? Doesn't it seem like corporations are happy that we are so stupid and don;t ever stand up for our rights?

Or

Have you noticed how many new survalence cameras are appearing all over?

Or

Did you know many people feel that trickery is what won Bush both elections? Idn't it time we marched in the streets to demand that he be removed from office in shame?

The trick to good questions is having courage and passion.

Answer 2

When in doubt, just ask someone "So how was Your day, do anything interesting, or was it just the usual grind"? That gives You several potential conversation starters, with options to open out to others. Now go ask some one about Their day, and see what happens! Try it in the elevator, or whilst waiting in a line.

Answer 3

Ask a guy about his car. Or what military service would mean to him. Or his sports ideas. Get him talking about himself. He will lead the conversation from then on. Most guys like the conversation to be about them and their interests.

Answer 4

Hi

Answer 5

"Gosh. For someone grotesquely overweight, you don't smell bad at all!"