ok so im still a virgin and thats how i plan to be until im ready and until the time comes. but ive just been thinking that im going to be really embarresed when "he pops the cherry" becasue its just embarrassing and gross, i mean guys: do you really want to have blood on you? and wouldnt it smell bad, maybey? :/
sex is suppsed to be beautful and something you enjoy with your bf
not like this !!!
right?
2007-02-04 13:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by hipsdontlie16 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
WRONG!!!!! sex is beautiful because it sweaty, sloppy and it sometimes smells. plus when/ if you bleed because not all girls do he'll probably love you alot more because at least he'll know you have some self control, unlike all the other people in the world who are sluts( no offense sluts I'm one to but just admit it). and as a guy speaking i dont give a crap if i get blood on the pole.
2007-02-04 13:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by mister 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) it will not bleed like most have said; 2) it will hurt and you will wonder why you even did it in the first place 3) are you sure you are ready for this step? It is not be taken lightly. Many guys, especially in high school, are only looking to get their needs taken care of and likely will not have a whole lot of respect for you after the cherry is pop as you pharse it. Society has made it seem like sex is not big deal and very casual......hopefully you wont. Remeber: you can get pregnant doing it the first time; you can get an STD that could ruin future relationship; it can be very emotionally especially if the guy dumps you and tells all his friends what he did.......you will be known as a slut/whore. Also, remember that when you are older and find "the one" you will need to be honest with him about how many guys you have been with.......and when you first had sex.......he may not respect you if you have been with a lot of guys or started too early.......no guy wants to be with a girl who has had numerous "poles" inside her. Good luck to ya.......and hope that you make the right choice.
2007-02-06 08:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by BE CAREFUL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know. If the guy hit the girl first it is terrible, beat his butt. If the girl hit the guy first....eh. It really does all stem back to the whole men being bigger,stronger,tougher,whatever. But. If people did not notice yet, looks are very deceiving. The girl could be a ninja assassin for god's sake and trying to slice the poor guy in half but everyone is like...don't hit her!!! I am really sorry about the double standard fellas, I really am.I did not make them. I am a female too and unfortunately fought some boys before. I am not proud of it at all because they were not fast at all. They hit hard. Yes. But they were not able to grab me. They also started it, I never start anything with anyone and feel like you should defend yourself against anyone willing to violate your personal space.OR get some friends of the same gender as your attacker and have them kick their butt for you. That is what I did when other incidents like that happened. You do not have to stoop to their level either.
2016-05-24 08:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a sweet guy he will be gentle and careful with you and not care about the blood (which is not much at all) or smell. (It only really smells if it gets hot and sweaty) The first time it will be uncomfortable, and possibly hurt like hell, but just keep tellin yourself that it can only get better. And it does get better!!!! Way better. Once you are comfortable with each other, it becomes wonderful because then you can experience new things try things, and it gets great. Things that you once thought were embarrassing wont be so embarassing. And good for you for waiting, I waited till I met my honey and it was wonderful being together and growing closer. And if he throws a fit about the blood or anything just kick him righht in the balls and dump him, you dont need a douche bag like that.
2007-02-04 15:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guys loves you and cares for you he won't care as much. Plus the first time have him wear a condom this way it isn't really going to get on him. Most girls "cherries" are popped before they even have sex. It just happens from random stuff like riding a bike. Mine wasn't, but I didn't get blood on him, I bled afterwards when I went to the bathroom. Don't worry too much about it and no it doesn't smell.
2007-02-04 13:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by kendal182006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not embarrassing nor gross because if the guy really loves you, he will understand.
The blood that comes out does NOT smell. You won't even notice it is there until afterward.
Guys don't care if they get a little blood on them because they will be wearing a condom.
Even with these things, sex can still be beautiful and special.
I know, because it was for me.
2007-02-04 13:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, there won't be alot of blood.
second, it won't smell bad.
third, if it is a special guy that you care alot about and he cares alot about you, and you are both ready to have sex, then you being a virgin will be a good thing, not a bad thing because the guy will know that he is special and that what is about to happen is special. if you are with a guy that is grossed out about it or wierd about it, then save it for a guy who is worth it, because obvisouly he's not.
2007-02-04 13:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Coolltw2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not even bleed and if it does it's not a lot. some girls "pop it" before they even have sex just from regular activity. dont worry too much about it if its really the RIGHT TIME and RIGHT GUY he wouldnt care about a little blood anyways
2007-02-04 13:35:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guy wont notice the blood its not alot just a spot or two after the sex dont worry about it
2007-02-04 13:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know what? It ain't gonna bother they guy. He's gonna be excited enough he isn't gonna care about blood. I do hear its a little painful for women the first time though. sorry.
2007-02-04 13:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋