Me and my best friend have known each other for 4 or so and we have become inseparable. The thing is that when we have sleepovers, we begin to cuddle and hug and massage each other and we eventually begin to kiss and make out.but we never talk about it . I get very jelaous of the thought of her being with another guy. I have a boyfriend, but i dont love him . i do care about him and i want to be with him but sometimes i feeel like im trying to force something thats not there.and i dont think i will have such strong feelings for anyone as i will have for her. We talked about this last night for the first time and she told me that we are like this because we really care for eachother a lot but not on a romantic level. I do see this on a romantic level though and i dont know what to do ...and i also dont know if this means im bi. i an very attrected to guys. im not attracted at all to other girls besides her... what am i and what do i do ?
2007-02-04 13:28:54 · 14 answers · asked by Monica C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This does happen. In fact, this is my story, different name. You are not bi. You are showing love to your best friend in a sexual way. You are not in love with her, you need to get a boyfriend whom you love and if she doesn't want anything more than best friends, it's her decision.
2007-02-04 13:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Exciting! You are open to being attracted to both sexes. This is not always meaning bi-sexual. Friendship is important in a intimate close love relationship and you are learning how important it is to you. If you have strong feelings for this woman and she returns the interest I say go for it. You will most likely learn a lot about yourself. There is a closeness between two women that is worth the experience. I am not implying sexual, although that is rewarding as well. Trust yourself and do what feels right for you.
2007-02-04 21:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by moire1111 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a very hard situation. I think that if you guys get to the kissing and your friends thinks is just because you care for eachother, well its not like that. I suggest you to talk to her and tell her your feelings. Its not right her answer, maybe she likes you too and doesn't want to accept it, because its not her believes. Tell her how you feel, if she doesn't feel the same well my friend you might want to move on otherwise your heart will suffer.
2007-02-04 21:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Wiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sort out your feelings. be sure about what you are feeling before someone gets hurt. i think your friend is experimenting. do either of your boyfriends suspect anything. at least this is out in thhe open i personally think you need to talk this out more before you pursue anything. this does not mean you are bi some girls experiment with other girls because it is safe. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-04 21:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by sharon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to most good frenz... they are close to each other and wanna try something they haf never tried b4 in their life. Juz that u care too much for each other.
2007-02-04 21:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by mel80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes this happens to very good friends- you develop feelings for them that are more than friendship. Does your friend know how you feel? Try talking to her first.
2007-02-04 21:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Pyro kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are bi, but i so think u care about ur friend very much i do think though that u should tell ur boyfriend about this... this is sorta big!!
2007-02-04 21:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by dream_dancer401 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. OK you should tell her how u feel, and i think that's fine what Ur doing just be careful what you do.
2007-02-04 21:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by Abby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be bi baby.
2007-02-04 21:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes i think im like this but when i think harder about it it gets gross.... im strait and uhh your problems answer:if your hate when people think bad about you fight it but if you could care less... dont fight it.
2007-02-04 21:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋