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here is the thing, my son is so kind to me and he will do wat i say but to stop smoking... i am so sad but i love my son so much.

2007-02-04 13:00:33 · 15 answers · asked by the forgotten thing 1 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

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My father did this to me 15years ago. When I tell him something weird at my chest, he immediately calls for ambulance. When I arrive in hospital, they x-ray my chest and that stupid doctor said my lung in critical condition and may be I can’t take anymore smoke (including smoke from car, truck factory, etc). I scared to death, I quit smocking in the same time I’ll never go out from house unless I wearing mask.

About 2 month later, that stupid doctor come to my house and examine me. He said that I can go anywhere without mask, but still I can’t smoke.

Just 5 years back, my father told me that stupid doctor was friend of him. And that night he not call for ambulance but his friend aka doctor... I hate being cheated by my own father

2007-02-04 15:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by Voltage Transformer 33kV 5 · 0 0

It is difficult to tell someone to stop smoking. Nicotine is such an addictive drug..I have managed to quit 2 times...the first time for 6 years and now for 25 years...I did it with nicotine gum...but everyone has their own best method...You have to really want to stop smoking to do it. Your questions should be "How do I convince my son to stop smoking"...I'm sure that he really wants to but doesn't know how...nobody wants to deal with the complications or expenses of smoking...maybe if you and he saw a doctor you could get more help.

2007-02-04 13:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He won't quit until it's his own decision. I quit so many times I lost count, then a little over a year ago, I had my last cigarette. No one nagging me ever made me want to quit; in fact, they made me want to smoke more. I had my first cigarette when I was 8--given to me by a close relative, and I quit almost 40 years later. Just be loving and kind to him and appreciate him for the wonderful son that he sounds like. In your own time, think positive thoughts about his quitting, and eventually, if he wants to, he will.
Good Luck!

2007-02-04 13:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Croa 6 · 0 0

Well it depends. If he smokes becuz his friends do then dont let him hang out with them any more. If he does it for other reasons then i dont know. All i can say is try talkin to him or get him into some kind of sport that would not give him time to smoke. Hope whatever you do stops him. Good luck!!

2007-02-04 13:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by BREANNA S 1 · 0 0

more information. Is he over 18? if he is, you can't do much except tell him how much you care for him and how scared of the negative effects of smoking you are.

If he is under 18, you have a few more options, and you should just handle it like anything else that you have to deal with.

you could offer an incentive. if you can afford it, maybe take him on a trip if he quits, or something like that.

2007-02-04 13:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Call the American Cancer Society and ask if they have some posters you can put up at home. Once, I had one that showed a picture of woman's face, all black and bumpy and melting, and it said "If your outside looked like your inside when you're smoking, would you still smoke?" It was really disgusting and effective. Maybe if you put some like that around the house, and slide one under his bedroom door..................

2007-02-04 13:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0 0

make him smoke 10 packs a day. he will get either very addicted or fed up with smoking, hahha.
reverse psychology sometimes works ;) hahaha
you know there're some facilities for people who suffer cronic disease from smoking (saw it in mtv before). you might need to bring him there to see the outcome of prolong smoking.

2007-02-04 13:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by williams 3 · 0 0

My Aunt told my cousins they could do whatever they wanted as long as they did it at home. They are 40 and 42 years old now and they don't smoke, drink or anything anymore. Worked on them.

2007-02-04 13:07:23 · answer #8 · answered by seecho 1 · 0 0

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2016-12-13 08:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Sit him down with his smoke of choice and have him chain smoke them till he pukes.

2007-02-04 13:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0 0

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