help im 12 weeks pg and the father isnt my bf how am i gunna tell him??? i dont wanna loose him!! :( help me please i really dont know what to do.
2007-02-04 12:48:30 · 17 answers · asked by blossom 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
im gunna tell him i just dont know how or wens the rite time!
2007-02-04 13:00:58 · update #1
Ouch, tough situation. You need to tell him ASAP, but in a gentle caring way. Tell him you love him, but that the baby might not be his. Let him know, that no matter what, you want him to be the father, with all your heart. Let him know that you'l always think of him as the father, anyway. This is your lovechild, a gift to him. Good luck!
2007-02-04 12:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you "yell" at him? Wouldn't you scold a child for this behavior? I don't mean yell at him. That will only escalate the behavior. Try saying something like HEY in a deep stern voice when he gets aggressive. If he has a leash on, better yet! Tug on the leash and say HEY in the same manner. Its just enough to break their attention and focus them on something else. Play behavior should not ever get ugly. If it does, end the play session.
2016-05-24 08:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER choose a guy over your own child!!! You look out for your baby first and foremost and whatever impact that has on a guy comes second.
There are women who knowingly let their bf molest their child so they won't lose the guy, is that the type of woman you want to be?
2007-02-04 12:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god what were you thinking? it's always the way with one guy for 2 years not pregnant with a guy for 15 min and pregnat. You have to tell him the truth what if the child doesn't look like him he will know go ahead and tell him it's better to know now then later.
2007-02-04 12:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by kaceek21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nuthin left but the truth babe. maybe now u should concentrate on a relationship ( i dont mean bf/gf relationship i mean some sort of friendly contact) with the father. u 2 are headed down a long road together.
2007-02-04 12:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by jean grey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well At first I was going to be caring,and tell you sorry,that this happened to you!...But think about it... these are children,we are hurting as well,your boyfriend might be one to forgive,or one to leave....this is not a good situation hun,If Cheating Is Your Thing...thats totally up to you,but when you bring a child in the world..thats another story....(not a good one)
I'll Keep Your Unborn In My Prayers.
2007-02-04 12:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, he has the right to know. You don't want to be another girl on maury telling a good man that he isnt the father. Be bigger then that. I wish you nuthin but good luck!
2007-02-04 12:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by TM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth otherwise youll lose him a lot more if he found out by someone else
2007-02-04 12:53:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and spit it out - there is, unfortunately, no easy way to tell him. You need to be honest and upfront with him. He may react better than you anticipate.
Good luck to you.
2007-02-04 14:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by Smiley One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you cheat on him or were you just not together at the time of conception? you have to tell him, he deserves to know the truth.
2007-02-04 12:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by sarah s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋