to have sexual fantasies about my neighbour who is married?
The funny thing is that he's not really my type, but something about him is sexy!!
2007-02-04 12:41:29 · 29 answers · asked by Tighty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes we are drawn to people that are not our perceived type. This may be your subconscious mind telling you to expand your horizons. Also, many women fantasize about something different than the norm.
BTW, what is your type? ;-P
2007-02-04 21:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Tinker Bell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would say yes if I was married ,but I'm not so no! I think you shouldn't worry about it because you said he is not your type. So therefore you will never act on it. I know how weird that must feel. I would try telling him in a joking way. Just to see what he says. This might turn your fantasies down a whole lot. Good luck.
2007-02-04 20:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really wrong to have fantasies about him as long as you don't carry out on them. You know he's married so if you even know him, keep it at a friend level and have respect for him, his wife and his marriage. Other than that, dream away honey!
2007-02-04 20:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion is that everyone does these things at some time or other but keep it a deep dark secret.as long as you are not obsessed with this fantasy or don,t act on it you are normal. you have a explosive situation in the making if improperly handled
2007-02-04 20:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they remain fantasies, nothing wrong. I hope you don't come between him and his wife, leave all married men alone! Are you married? If you are you'd understand that you need to stay away. Fantasies are harmless as long as they remain that way.
2007-02-04 20:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sexual fantasies are not wrong as long as you don't act on them.
2007-02-04 20:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by lovely 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you admire him, but from afar. You don't want to be a homewrecker. Unfortunately the more you hone in on somebody the more you might talk yourself into actually "going for it" or trying to get his attention. If he's a smart man he will ignore you and continue to dote on his wife. There are alot of admirable men out there in the world, but back off this one is taken. Set your sights on somebody who hasn't taken vows til death do they part.
2007-02-04 21:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it is quite normal to develop crushes and sometimes have sexual thoughts and ideas of individuals we would not and should not be involved with. And it is just a thought. It would be very wrong to put the thoughts into actions. Careful where you allow your thoughts lead you. God bless****
2007-02-04 20:46:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is normal to have fantasies, and the fact that he is the "forbidden fruit" makes you fantasize about it. We always want something that is someone elses, especially if we are confidence. Perfectly normal.
2007-02-04 20:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by passionfire2k4 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What ever floats your boat, Not as long as you don't go any farther have all the fantasies you can handle .
Have fun
2007-02-04 20:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋