he's 44 shes a 22 yr old married slut
2007-02-04 12:27:58 · 12 answers · asked by ruth.clift@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, he certainly fell into the statistics, didn't he. Silly middle age man trying to hang on to his "youth" fooling around with bimbo..... Tell him to drop the bimbo and buy a Corvette. If he doesn't, kick him to the curb and YOU buy the Corvette.
2007-02-04 16:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mid-life crisis.
Confront him. Leave him...make him sad...and maybe he will wise up. Obviously he is really sad with his life or he thinks that he needs his ego built.
One time I had a serious relationship I was in..cheat. I just laughed and waited for him to get dumped.
The problem is that you may not recover. I mean I don't think I would. Once the trust is gone...what do you do?
Maybe it is just a moment of insanity..but he needs to be accountable and if you want a divorce and lots of alimony...you have earned it. That is my view. But if you love the ooooff then consider making him fix it if you can...
Sorry. I am beginning to think men are just pigs...But you need to be mean and tough. That is the solution for both of them.
Ruin her life.
2007-02-04 12:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(((hugs))) Don't do anything without thinking it through. What you do depends on what you want to do and what his reasons for straying are. I wish you luck with this.
Heres some Dr. Phils articles that I hope help you
"Moving Forward After Infidelity"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/16
"Getting Past An Affair"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/336
2007-02-04 12:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out where his heart is at first before u jump to any conclusions, if he is remorseful, and acknowledges it, and realizes how this has hurt u and agrees to end it, than give him another chance, if he attacks u and blames u as the reason and isn't remorseful, u have to get out of this marriage as clean as u can. confront him immediately, as you just can't ignore this and deny it it will hurt u even more than knowing.
2007-02-05 01:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is merely terrified of you getting damage back. and that i will claim that your opportunities are intense fairly intense because you have not discovered the "reality" about adult adult males. i counsel you to examine the e book, "he's merely no longer That Into You" with assistance from Greg Behrendt. and do not say "my mom would not enable me examine that", because you want to regardless. it truly is to more effective practice you for the international. You look fairly naive and set contained in the christian techniques. there is no longer something incorrect with that, yet you ought to understand a international exists out that that would not revolve round what you're used to. What you want to do is get a criminal professional and get divorce that includes alimony, infant custody, and also you'd manage to sue the pants off him for funds because he cheated. he will not in any respect see it coming from you. don't be walked on with assistance from some masochist with an information superhighway lover it truly is gaining all of his funds and greatest you to have self belief that women folk human beings of the biblical body of ideas get screwed. this isn't precise, so arise for your self. you're going to sit there, and performance a stroke over something and do not something. you've rights, woman and a great number of them. overlook in case your mom ought to "recommend hostile to it" or no longer. to respond to your question: you've the Biblical precise, certain. God gave us minds and bodies that are prepared and in a position and he expects us to apply them until eventually we die. He gave us sexual nature and all that is going with it. inspite of if it change right into a sin, which it is no longer, do you imagine that you do not dedicate a sin regularly happening? it truly is MINOR in evaluation. God needs you and your kinfolk to be threat-free and satisfied and some guy can provide that for you. If a pair dies: certain to that too."to lack of existence do you section" ends the marriage vows. in case you die: your ex is gonna marry the shakett even if you die or no longer. settle for this, get even, bypass on. He would not care about the Bible as a lot as you do.
2016-11-02 08:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when a husband cheats i know its hard but only thing to do i guess is get a divorce im seprated and my husband cheated i still can't make that step yet to divorce so iyou will probally go threw mixed emotions like i am i love my husband and you probally love yours but if they don't love us what can we do but divorce so im having a hard time advising you when i don't know what to do myself
2007-02-08 08:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have EVERY right to divorce him. Oh and take out a ad on the national paper and advertise his infidelity with her.
2007-02-04 13:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and if he does not want the marriage anymore then let him go and divorce him. This is grounds for divorce.
2007-02-04 12:56:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my story. hang on there and talk to the husband. the other girl was too young. maybe he's showering her with presents. take care of yourself and pray.
2007-02-08 08:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and tell him that you know about the affair. If he is apologetic, seek counseling, insist he break it off and MAKE IT WORK. If he's not apologetic, still pray that you can forgive him and seek legal counsel.
2007-02-04 13:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by MDR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋