I think I am attracted to my roomie which is also my best friend. I am sure she does not feel the same about me as she is against homosexuality. Everytime she touches me or sleep besides me, I got turned on. I also fantasize bout making love to her. I have had sexual fantasies with men and women so I am not sure what is this feeling that I had for her?
2007-02-04 12:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if u like boys and girls then u r bisexual
2007-02-04 12:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bisexual. This doesn't necessarily mean that you're in love with her specifically; it's probably just your brain experimenting, particularly if it's your best friend (I have that happen to me too, a lot). If you are genuinely attracted to her, and have a feeling she would not be comfortable knowing about it, try and find someone else with whom you can have a romantic relationship for a little bit. Don't put yourself too much at risk doing this, but try shifting the focus away from her.
Most importantly, don't psych yourself out about this. It's important to think about matters of friendship with a level head. This is only one part of your life, so make sure your emotions regarding your roomie don't take over the rest of your life.
2007-02-04 20:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by GeekGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think i am in a similar situation. I think really in love with my best friend. The thing with me though is that when we sleep we cuddle and kiss but the next day we dont talk about it. I think you might be bisexual if you have fantazies over other women as well. But if its only with her, you might just have a lot of affection towards her. possibly an infatuation because thats how i am,
2007-02-04 21:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Monica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you know what your attraction is---to men or to women, don't sleep in the same bed with her.
You may get a big surprise if you make a move on her!
2007-02-04 20:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by poutine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur bi plain and simple and ur "feeling" for her is probably a crush u need to find someone else if she is straight cuz that wont work obviously but if ur not too sure tell her u like her but she might freak out and move out so might not be a good idea
2007-02-04 21:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by xASHx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt the same. I think maybe you should see if you get these feelings with another person. You may benefit from that.
2007-02-04 20:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by MissRae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just think she is attractive but can you see yourself having a romantic and intimate relationship with her or any other female if so your either gay or Bi.
2007-02-04 20:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sexual feelings for both males and females you're bi.
2007-02-05 13:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be, but you may also just be such good friends that you are falling deeply in love with her, but what the hell do I know?
2007-02-04 20:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabye your body is saying go for it , don't know . I think u're bi curious, thats what it sounds like to me ,best of luck to ya . peace.
2007-02-04 23:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by matthew w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋