my name is michelle and i just made the cheerleading squad 2 months ago.the problem is im problably the worst girl on the team i have a very bad toe touch and im not flexible.i also dont have any friends on the squad.i feel like im wasting my time there i can barely do a cartwheel and i can only frontspot[very badly] so my problem is i have no friends on the squad and im not appreciated there its like i suck and im just an alternate.i want to be a tumbler and a flyer but they dont care about me i just want to be better but i cant take private lessons.im starting to love cheerleading and i dont want to quit but everytime i go to practice i feel like crying PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE IM BEGGING YOU! [tear.tear]
2007-02-04 12:21:17 · 6 answers · asked by michelle n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi Michele i read your question and i was touched.this is what i will say to you from what i have seen in you is that you valuer allot what people think or say about you something that will always make you miserable in life.
First of all learn not to care about what others say or think about you.By this i don't mean that you do it in a rude way but in a positive way.How you may ask.This is how you do it. When they say something that is true then you seat down give it a close thought then work on it to make it better and don't take in a word again concerning that issue let them say what they want to say but don't care cos you know that you are working on it.If they say something that is not true, don't even give it a thought let them say all they want keep a low profile and mind your business.
About friends don't be so mindfully about that as well you see God will give you a true friend in His time all you need to do in your team is to socialize With the people well and about the tumbler and flyer,set goals and work on it in your private time when alone and you will see what miracle will take place i guarantee you that it works
2007-02-04 12:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by robert k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work as hard as you can and concentrate on improving. You made the squad, so they obviously think you're good enough. If there is a coach, ask the coach how you can improve faster. Most coaches really appreciate team members that are willing to work hard. Work on your cartwheels at home. You can do this. It's something you're interested in, so you're just going to have to work at it. And don't assume all the other cheerleaders are looking down at you. They're too busy worrying about their own shortcomings....
2007-02-04 20:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am quite sure you are not as bad as you think. You just need more confidence. You got on the team and beat out other girls, remember that and just work on improving. You will get better, and I am sure that you are way better then you think you are.
2007-02-04 20:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are as bad as you think you are because you got picked to be a cheerleader. work extra hard, and be confident with yourself.
2007-02-04 20:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must not be that bad at it or they wouldn't have picked you for the squad. quit whining and just keep trying
2007-02-04 20:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
gggggggggggg
2007-02-04 20:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by mariofan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋