i think i may love men and women but i prefere women i feel that i'm traped in the wrong body and want a sex changed operation how do i explean this to my wife
2007-02-04 12:12:52 · 20 answers · asked by hank d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be honest with her and give her some room to breath and sort through her feelings. I'm sure this will throw her for a loop to say the least. But be ready to be a divorced man/woman after you tell her. Not many women are OK with sharing her panties with her husband.
2007-02-04 12:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Slip into your little black dress....meet her at the door with your boy toy......I don't think any words will be needed. Who knows...when she is done with you.....your sex change may be complete. Question for you....why...if like they say you are born the way you are....its not a choice did you get married to a women in the first place? After all you must have known Right?
2007-02-04 20:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by oldman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In a room with no sharp objects Don't expect it to go well.
File for divorce and hand her the papers.She must have a clue. Best of luck in your new life.
2007-02-04 21:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu have some serious issues, go get couseling for them. Your poor wife, how awful. My dad did this to my mom and it ruined our entire family. Now he's married again, and still hasn't gotten counseling for his issues. He's on his way to creating another train wreck. Selfish! Think about somebody else besides yourself, go get help!
2007-02-04 21:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by dixi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to just tell her. She deserves to know. If you love someone you need to be honest with them. It won't be easy but you'll feel better getting it off of your chest, and you will have to tell her sometime. No time like the present.
2007-02-04 20:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Aidan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just straight out tell her. There is no sense beating around the bush. You need to do what makes you happy. Good luck!
2007-02-04 20:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is no good way to tell this to your wife except to be completly honest and tell her everything. She probally will be very upset and feel betrayed because you aren't who you say you are. Remind her that you still love her if you do.
2007-02-04 20:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jomahawk 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Go put on your dress and file for a divorce. I hope you figured this out during marriage and NOT before. If you knew this before, why did you waste your time and hers? I hope you didn't bring kids into this mess. Go get yourself straightened out.
2007-02-04 20:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell her its not her fault, but you'd rather be a woman than a man.
2007-02-04 20:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by marnan97 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell her... If you cannot tell her then write her a letter... Honesty is the best policy here!
2007-02-04 20:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋