Everysince he was little, he had to deal family issues such as his biological mother and stepmother abusing him, his father verbally hurting him, etc. He suffered despression at an early age but know one knew about it except me. Some of the kids in our school bullied him and was rejected by the people he trust the most and that kinda damaged the guy alot.Right now, he has so much anger an hatred inside of him. All he can think of is murder and more violence towards his enemies. He always comes up to me and tell me about his murder plans and they are extremely brutal/sickening. He has a huge fascination for decapitated/mutilated bodies and others disgusting stuff. It is so unbelievable. There was an essay in school, he wrote some thing which led the teacher to call his parents.
The counseler said he has some mental disorder.
I am like the only person in school he talks to happily. He gets so nervous infront of people. He even hids from them.
I am worried about him!
2007-02-04 11:53:32 · 9 answers · asked by h 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am worried about the whole situation.........
you really need to confide in someone...a trusted adult...I hate to put it all on you........but maybe there is some way that you could speak to a guidance counselor or something, and your name would never be mentioned........if this guy truly "blew up," knowing what he has said to you already and what is going on in his head, and you never did anything about it or told anyone what might happen, which seems to be the case here..............you would never be able to live with yourself........(if he really hurt or killed someone)............ I am truly sorry that he had a horrible childhood, that is usually how it all starts........but that is no excuse for his actions.....or for you to stay silent......
if you are close to your parents...and you trust them....please tell them what you have written here.................or atleast one of them.....somebody needs to do something.........and this kids needs help..........look at it this way...........he will never get help if he keeps going the way that he is.........he is suffering inside and needs help................
2007-02-04 11:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by amber 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's good he has someone like you to trust but why if he is diagnosed with a mental disorder does he get no help from counselling/befrienders or social work dept? You are in a very tricky situation if you know his inner thoughts and you are witholding them from people who deal with these type of issues ie psychiatrists etc. It sounds like he is a time bomb ready to go off and there must be anger management courses or some other outlet for his anger without taking it out on innocent people. How about suggesting taking up some sport or activity where he can expel all his energy like running club or martial arts. He needs an outlet as it's being bottled up and not released which is a lethal combination. Keep assuring him he is not a bad person and he needs help and maybe you'll win him round and he'll see that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
2007-02-04 20:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by lizard2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anger can be seen as a disorder, but based on what you have to say, things are a lot deeper than what others appear to want to believe, or deal with. I can feel for his feelings of anger. While it is not easy, and will seem to be very unfair, his best out is to forgive those who have hurt him. Difficult, yes indeed. I can attest to that because I've been there. The desire to hurt others is quite real, but solves nothing. It only leads to more hurt, and punishment that is best avoided. Freedom is always better than confinement. His outlook towards others appears to be based on what has happened to him by others. A change in point of view could be to view others as innocent, until proven guilty. If guilty, then just have nothing to do with them. I would suggest counseling, but with someone who is willing to look past the obvious, and search out the root causes. I know, I have had people who made up their minds as to what the reason was and acted based on their assumptions. People do tend to take the easy way out, rather than to dig for what is true. Your friend needs help, and I would advise that a place to start would be to seek the help for a referral from such an organization as the Billy Graham ministries. They will, or should know of youth services that can help your friend. It will take some effort, but help is available.
2007-02-04 20:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And I am worried about YOU!! Read what you wrote as though it was from someone else and tell me what YOU think!! This is dangerous for you and others too. If you desert him, he may react violently toward you. Does he actually harm animals or insects with ease or enjoyment? A lot of guys WISH they were killers because they feel helpless but a lot of killers are guys who want empowerment! You are in a really bad position. Please tell everyone that could help, about his mind trips and his day-dreamed plans. You never know. If you don't get a "reading" or vibe from him about his capabilities of violence, you are in a bad place and need to CYA. Take care of you. Don't become his enemy but he shouldn't threaten you into being his (captive) friend. Good Luck! Wow. (You said it is unbelievable, so is it?)
2007-02-04 20:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to see a psychologist. He needs to learn how to get rid of his anger in a positive way.
2007-02-04 19:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by KristaElizabeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel scared for you. If he is your friend, and you are really his friend you will get him some help. He sounds dangerous so don't do anything that would make him angry. Has his family been invoved in volience? Does he get in fights? I'm sorry for you and worried about your friend. Hope you figure this out.
2007-02-04 20:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs love. True unselfish love. That's the only thing that won't and can't fail. I'll pray for him.
2007-02-04 21:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a neighbor who has almost all of these traits.
Look into it here: http://www.hss.caltech.edu/~mcafee/Bin/sb.html
2007-02-04 20:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by jillvaughn000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he needs to lay off the crack pipe *****
2007-02-04 20:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by saddam41555 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋