when will it be confirmed if she is pregnant and what are my options if I dont want the baby?
2007-02-04 11:36:29 · 20 answers · asked by Zodiac 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
have you ever heard of pre-c u m? ya know...the clear liquid that comes out before the white c u m?
that pre-c u m HAS sperm in it. so pulling out is pointless. basically...wrap a condom on your pecker if you don't want this to happen again!!!!!
as for you not wanting the baby? you should of thought of that sooner. if the girl is NOT agreeable to an abortion..you are responsible for YOUR part of this happening.
so it's time to be a man.
2007-02-04 11:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by ☆MWφM☆ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your screwed. There is always a chance of getting a girl pregnant if you don't wear a condom and even then you have a chance of getting her pregnant.
I have two kids and both were conceived while my husband used a condom.
So if you want to have sex and don't want to be a father you better make sure you wear a condom and that the girl is on birth control pills.
As for her telling you that she thinks her cycle is delayed after a week of having sex with you, that is stupid.
She needs to wait and see if she has her period. And if she is stressing about it, it will make it come later.
If she is pregnant, which I highly doubt it, make sure you get a blood test done after the baby is born.
The withdraw method doesn't work which you probably already realize. Your sperm come out whenever your inside of her.
Good luck and don't stress about it.
It is way to early to know if she is pregnant or not but there is a good possibility.
2007-02-04 19:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tired-Mom 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You probably have at least a couple weeks to wait, depending on where she was in her cycle. I'm not trying to be mean here, but if you were willing to have unprotected sex, then you should be ready to have a baby. That is something you think about automatically. But anyway the answer is you help her financially with the baby if she decideds to raise it. Maybe later you will realize the importance of being in your childs life. Sorry..just the truth.
2007-02-04 19:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by megant 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are horrible. If you didn't want a baby, you shouldn't have agreed to (or suggested) unprotected sex. If she is pregant, you should be a real, good man and stand by whatever decision SHE makes. If she has the baby, you should help care for it--or at least provide monetary support. If SHE decides to abort, you should pay for at least half of it since you are a good part of the cause!
Once her period is a week late is when she should start worrying and get a blood test. I hope for her sake that she is not pregnant, since you think you can make decisions for her.
2007-02-04 19:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by Esma 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want the baby then you shouldn't be having sex. Plus it is not up to you if she is pregnant and what she is going to do with the baby. If she doesn't want the baby then talk about adoption and help out a family that can't have kids. Do the right thing and STEP UP! It takes two to tango. So it is as much your fault she may be pregnant. And Stop having sex with girls. You've done enough damage as it is. Kid having Kids I swear!
2007-02-04 19:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by p0pad0t 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, nice that you're thinking about that NOW.
When she takes a pregnancy test and it comes out positive, then you'll know Dad.
Your options are...ooh wait, you HAVE none. She chooses!
Enjoy, Dad. And buy some condoms. No sense making your unborn baby a brother or sister just yet, eh?
Oh, by the way: You can relinquish all the parental RIGHTS you want, but you can't relinquish your parental RESPONSIBILITY to support your kid, Dad. You're on the hook for child support unless someone adopts your child.
Hey, Father's Day is coming up. Give is your address and maybe we'll send you a tie or something.
2007-02-04 19:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
She can have a positive pregnancy test basically the first day she's late for her period. If she is pregnant and you don't want the kids, you are SOL. In fact, if she is pregnant and you try to deny the child, I hope your a$$ gets nailed to the cross for child support. Next time wear a condom or, better yet, just jerk off instead. Your seed belongs in the toilet rather than making babies.
2007-02-04 19:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Justin H 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you dont really have alot of options if you dont want the baby its her choice if it comes into this world (aside from being a deadbeat dad) if you didnt want a baby you should have managed to buy a 25 cent condom but since you didnt i hope this situation helps you to be more responsible with your future and whoever you happen to be sleeping with
2007-02-08 14:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have NO options...if you didn't WANT a baby you shouldn't have unzipped your pants and dropped your drawers and CHOSEN to have sex. When you CHo9OSE to have sex you CHOOSE to be responsible for ALL of the consequences that might happen, if she is pregnant it is because YOU made that choice.
2007-02-04 20:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want a baby take the proper responsibilities and protect you and the girl. if there is a baby as a result of your thoughtlessness you made your bed, now you can lye in it. its not the babies fault. you are going to act like an adult then you have to take on what comes with it. you don't want a baby then stick to a bar of soap and a dirty magazine. keep one less statistic from happening...no shame in that.
2007-02-04 19:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by kittie 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋