If you full out know you like girls at age 13, are you really lesbian?
2007-02-04 11:28:17 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
When I was 14 I knew for sure I was a lesbian. Just took me about 7 years to come to terms with it. :)
Sexuality is innate, you can't help it-you don't choose who love. People tend to exaggerate love and sex and sexuality. If only we could learn to take out all the extra complications, we'd realize life narrows down to love, plain and simple.
2007-02-04 11:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger, while my sisters and their friends were designing their weddings and such, I had this idea that I would never be really getting married. I didn't find fun in elaborating describing my future husband because the idea didn't really sit well with me. I didn't really relate to it. I really loved the idea of being with a girl. I had a crush on my female best friend when I was younger, and we "dated" during our elementary school years. I never had this idea that I was going to be with a man, unconsciously I always knew I loved females. The closet person to a man that I have ever felt attracted to is my trans-gender friend. I think I really, consciously, began to realize my attraction to females was when I was nine years old and started menstration. When you become developed physically, I think you become more aware of your self sexually. I lost my viriginity through gay intercourse after this point and, after which, I was sure I was gay, but just couldn't come to terms with it. I was about thirteen when this happened, maybe twelve. But, anyway, I knew I was gay my entire life, and I think, biologically speaking, that it doesn't really matter what age you are, people figure things out at different points.
2007-02-04 20:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Waverly Pascale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone can answer that question but you.. But I do believe that you should explore a bit more before you label yourself " Lesbian " I feel that young women should be more careful about who there partners are with diseases like AIDS and HIV going around also who knows you might even want to have children some day.
2007-02-04 21:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by babiboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was bi when I was 12, and told my parents a few months after I figured it out. It's possible to know at that age.
2007-02-04 20:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people realize they are gay, bisexual and even straight at different times in their lives. It's dependent on the person. Most people start to realize or have "feelings" toward whatever sex they're attracted to in their preteens so is very possible to know at thirteen.
2007-02-04 20:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by xander2025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yes, pretty good chance. It is not at all uncommon to have strong feelings of attraction at that age and if you're feelings are only going towards girls....yes I think.
2007-02-05 16:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by meiguanxi :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not. The gals like you, who're too eager on it, could well start even before they're 3.
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2007-02-04 21:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by oralwish w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope people can know their sexual orientation at any age at least thats what I believe.
2007-02-04 19:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by 17-4serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
any age is too young to be a pervert
2007-02-04 20:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by main m 1 · 2⤊ 6⤋