My ex gf and I have been broken up awhile, she's with someone new and we were friends w/benefits for awhile. Recentely she told me we can strictly be friends, but a day before that she told me she misses me and loves me, etc. What the heck? I feel like my head is being messed with! She cheated on her new gf with me about a month ago and is now acting like she's gonna be faithful, and she blamed ME for the infedelity! I keep chasing and although she tells me to leave her alone, she ALWAYS replies to my messages! I know I should move on and forget it, but it's hard cuz she KNOWS how I feel about her and I feel she's taking advantage of that. Right now she's in a good relationship, as she claims, but this has happened before, when something goes wrong, I'm the shoulder. Is this a possible mind game? Do ex's ever come back? If so, how long after???
2007-02-04 11:14:07 · 7 answers · asked by Brekn'dwn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds like she doesn't really know what she's doing... If I were you, I'd just walk away.. I know it's hard, but even if she came back, would you be able to trust that she'd be faithful to you? If she's not faithful right now with her new gf, chances are even if you were to get back together with her she wouldn't be faithful. So unless you like all this mind playing games, I would suggest get out.
2007-02-04 11:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by yogastar02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a step back and stop being her security blanket... she has problems that she has to figure out on her own and right now she is dependent on you when she feels alone.
2007-02-04 19:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will take advantage of you as long as you continue to allow it and freely let her back into your life, move on and find someone who is actually into you and is not into playing so many games....
2007-02-08 12:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should play the same game with her and see what happens. Im almost guaranteeing that she will be calling you and what not.
2007-02-04 19:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by justin_49ers2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out---your being used---life is to short for this ---live a real life---you;ve only got one
2007-02-04 19:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes USING you when she has nothing better to do.
2007-02-04 19:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW.............. I like to wipe my feet on you too. And when my period is on you could be my pad too................... EEELLLLLLLLLLLll get a life and stop letting people use YOU.
2007-02-04 19:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋