2007-02-04 11:09:40 · 20 answers · asked by sonic_brain3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is very difficult you. I think I know how you might feel, when I was younger I lived with a mum that was abusive too (she substance abused). The thing is, at the time, I didn't think any would or could help me. But now looking back I know that if I had reached out to the right people both me and my mum would have got the help we needed.
My advice to you (based on the very limited information you have given) is to speak to an adult that you trust about this, who can help you figure out what's best. It doesn't mean you're betraying your mum or that you will have cut off contact with her (unless it's something which is absolutely necessary and you want it).
If you're too afraid to do that then there are numerous child charities that can offer you independent confidential advice -look them up on the Internet.
In the UK there's Childline which has lots of useful advice on their website.
Feel free to email me if you want more support from me on this.
I wish you the best of luck and courage to look after yourself.
2007-02-04 11:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by How many questions can there be? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If possible, report this a family member that you trust, about the situation. If you cannot do that, talk to (report) a teacher that you feel close to and trust. If neither of these are possible, or you don't want to do this, you can contact your local Social Services Department. There may be a 24 hour hotline that you can call.
I know that this a sad situation, and I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Just remember, there is help for you (and your mother) out there.
2007-02-04 11:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your father in the picture? If they are not together you may want to try to go live with him. If this is not an option you may want to talk with someone in school (counselor) about your problem and that your mother is abusive. That may get you out of the house and put in foster care which may not be easy but it is an option.
2007-02-04 11:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are around 16 emancipation is an option. If you have relatives That want you to live with them maybe that. If she will let you leave maybe you could work and get your own apartment. Of course being 16 is needed to work in most places. Whatever you do don't lose hope you will be able to leave and start your own life and future at 18 at the latest . I wish you the best .
2007-02-04 11:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by conan999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Child Protective Services or if you attend school, tell a teacher, principal, or counselor. They will be able to get you the resources that you need to help you through this.
I hope everything works out for you. If I was in your shoes and in the meantime, I would consider calling a friend's mom and asking if you could stay with them. You need to get out of that house and into a safe place.
2007-02-04 11:16:28 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was also an abused child. I know it is rough. If there is anyone in your family that you trust, turn to them first. Maybe living with a relative would be better than being put into foster care. If you do not have any safe places to go, please speak with your guidance counselor because as shameful as it may be to tell, it is not your fault and you deserve to feel safe and loved.
2007-02-04 11:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by becki_normalgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad or a relative or someone at your school like your teacher or principal... Be sure to tell someone and do not keep it a secret anymore. You need help to get out of this abusive situation with your mom.
2007-02-04 11:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful as to what you are saying and be sure that what is happening is abuse....not just discipline. Once you cry wolf....it can be a messy can of worms that you open. Having said that if you are truly being abused.....mentally physically or in any other form then report this to your school counselor
best of luck
2007-02-04 11:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by oldman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell an adult that you trust immediatly. You should not have to live this way. Don't worry, you will have a better life and a more promising future with people who care about u. Good Luck. <3
2007-02-04 11:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you term abuse? Many kids say they are "abused" and just are throwing a hissy fit about parental authority that is legitimate. I won't answer this question until I have more information. Name the specific things you consider "abuse".
2007-02-04 11:19:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋