Mysterious call for hubby?

Question

Last january 1 night when hubby went to the local small store in our town phone rang it was a girl she ask if ronny(hubbys name) was home and when i said no who is this she hung up on me immeditely.Well for months and months i questioned him about this and he said over and over and over he didnt know anything about the call.Well after being question for 3 or 4 months 1 night he said "im all yours u have nothing to worry about'so i said what do u think i would be worried about and he said "i dont know"next day i ask him what he meant and he said "u were worried about that call and i told u i knew nothing about.my mom says he was just tryin to reassure me.He is a great guy,a wonderful husband,treats me like and queen.We have been happily married 16 yrs and i know he would never cheat on me..I totally believe and i know he would never give another woman his number but this call was so mysterious and dont know how any girl would get his number cause name in phone book is in my name not his

I know its been a yr since this call but for some reason i cant seem to get it off my mind and i dont know why..maybe im just crazy lol..and like i said i totally believe him just curious to what others think.

Well letica i know my husband he wouldnt cheat and we DONT have a cell phone

Its my business why i am asking this again so dont worry about it and as i said before i am just curious about what different people have to say

Blackmailing him for money..What money lol

Blackmailing him for money..What money lol

Well 1 time i told him i was gonna keep bugging him until he told me the truth about the call and he said i would have kept telling u the same thing "i dont know" and another time i told him i was gonna call the phone company and find out who she was and he said "i dont give a f**k..I SAID ALL THIS TO HIM LIKE BEFORE LAST SUMMER..AND LOTS OF PEOPLE SAID THIS SOUNDS LIKE HE HAS NOTHING TO HIDE WHICH I AGREE WITH.

It wont cause problems in my marriage cause i dont even mentioned it him anymore been like before last summer since since i even brought it up to him and i wont anymore.

well charmed i KNOW my husband he would never hurt me like that he is a good man and a great husband and there is no way to further investigate

lol noga that is so funny but so UNTRUE.

Well noga u think wrong..If a husband/wife is gonna cheat(which he didnt) then im sure there not gonna be stupid enough to give out their home phone number cause they know their spouses of course answer phone too

Answer 1

Just let it go and let the past be tbe past... Trust your husband on this one.... Sometimes weird things happen and we do not know why.... Seems to me that your husband loves you very much... It may have been a bill collector or a telemarketer or something like that too. It only happened once so let it go is all i am saying.

Answer 2

I certainly suggest that you investigate further. My husband for more than 13 years also had an affair. I missed out on simple clues like text messages and a phone call as well. Later on, I found out that he was indeed having an affair when he accidentally left his cellphone and I read his 'other woman's' messages. I was shocked, hurt and in total depression. But I managed to stand through it all. I probed further and I got all the information that I needed. God is good though. As my husband and that woman has severed ties about 2 years ago. I'm still hurting over his betrayal. I haven't completely forgotten, but I have learned to forgive him. I love him still. But I don't trust him fully no more. And he understands that. And he says he's willing to wait for me to 'heal' completely. He's ever since gone back to being the good husband that he was and the loving father to our beautiful kids. It is hard to accept harsh realities like this. But everything happens for a reason. Don't wait till it's a full blown affair. My husband's affair lasted almost 4 months and might have lasted longer if I haven't known.

Answer 3

I think maybe he was seeing her before and broke it off and would not answer his cell so she got mad and called the house. When you answered she asked for him thinking he would be there and upset you at the same time. then she probably thought she may ruin any chance left with him so she hung up. How else would she get your home number, maybe she saw it in his cell phone and wrote it down. She could also be blackmailing him for money to keep the secret from you!!! I would look into it. After 16 years of marraige men tend to stray, when something younger comes along.

Answer 4

I'm confused. You say that you believe him, but you are posting a question about it with a long detailed question on the internet. You have spent a lot of time thinking about this and pondering. I would suggest going to see someone with your husband. A marraige couselor could help things a great deal. This has gone on now in your head for a year. It WILL consume you if you continue to do nothing. I doubt that he was cheating, but I think that you have an inkling. In my experience, you should always go with your gut.

Answer 5

I found out my husband was cheating on me 7 months ago. I forgave him and we reconciled and were supposed to be working on our marriage. I had this "feeling" that something just wasn't right last October. I confronted my husband who held me in his arms, swore he wasn't going anywhere because he loved me and wanted to be with me. He also swore to me that he hadn't had any contact with his whore since I found out about it. Guess what? Just a couple of hours later after all of this swearing, I find TWO messages from the whore on his voice mail at work. If it was my husband, I wouldn't believe a word he said. Do you have any other evidence or reason to suspect that your husband is cheating? Sometimes we just have a "feeling" that something isn't right. If that's you then you need to keep your ears and eyes open for anything that's not normal about your husband.

Answer 6

He was seeing someone - it doesn't matter what he says to your face - he's just trying to avoid getting what he deserves for dicking another woman.

No one - and I mean NO ONE knows my home phone number, especially little hot pieces of a s s, unless *I* want them to know it. What does he do? Type his name and phone number on little slips of paper and accidentally drop them all over town?
H O R S E S H I T.

Stop asking *if* he had an affair. Start asking how long has it been going on.

Answer 7

The exact same thing happened to one of my good friends. Til this day he swears he has no clue who the mysterious woman was on the other line when he's wife answered the phone. Just for assurance, he's kids followed him everywhere he went for 2 whole months. Best thing he says, he got to spend some good time with he's kids.

Answer 8

Sometimes .. .and it's happened to me.... a wrong number but right name. And I've started yaking and talking before I discovered that we both have the wrong person.

If there have been no other mysterious calls, I would drop it. It was a coincidence or a mistake. Your husband seems very sensitive to your doubts. I would trust him, until his behavior shows differently.

I think if you persist in this you will cause some problems in your marriage.

Answer 9

It seems that this was an isolated incident. We can't and shouldn't be held accountable for the actions of another, whoever they may be. There could be a dozen different explanations for this mystery call, and you could risk ruining your marriage with suspicion of deception on your husband's part, where none exists. I agree with Lady. Let this go.

Answer 10

There is no mystery too it.He gave her his phone number..He was seeing her behind your back..keeping you in the dark about her..she got careless..called your home for him..ask for him..hung up on you..you start asking questions about her..the two of them get worried..you are going to find out..most likely him..he breaks it off with her..He is all yours you have nothing to worry about..because she is history..no longer in the picture..Honestly that is..What I think was going on?No i do not think..He is going to tell you the truth..because he is afraid if he tells you the truth..He will lose you over it.