2007-02-04 10:53:28 · 19 answers · asked by ms. popularity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK i was just kidding i would NEVER say that about my best friend!!!
2007-02-04 11:36:05 · update #1
First find out if there is something putting her in a bad mood that you might not know about. If there isn't well just give her some space. People grow and change that isn't your fault or doing.
2007-02-04 12:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are tired of her negativity, because it can only bring you down. Tell her to talk with a professional because life is too short to not enjoy it...and you don't need a friend who is never happy about anything...they will eventually rub off on you and hurt you in the long run...tell them flat out, you can't continue being their friend if they are going to whine all the time, because there are always people out there alot worse off that you...no matter what it is..she sounds spoiled..or has no self-esteem..and probably needs to go talk to a professional...and if she does this, and you stick by her, you are a true friend. good luck and don't you whine, lol
2007-02-04 11:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her! Tell her, the whining has got to stop, it is time to grow up. So in future, lets discuss things, and try and work them out. That would be the mature way to handle it!
2007-02-04 10:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just like this. it isn't because to are doing or not doing, it is just a part of their personality. the best thing for you to do is try to ignore it when they do this. you can change a person, if you are going to be with them you are just going to have to deal with the way they are. there is an old saying that goes "if you carve yourself to suit everybody, you will soon widdle yourself away." don't blow your mind trying to figure out how to please the person. just be there for them through the good times and the bad. that is what a friendship is suppoesd to be about. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-04 11:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems really thoughtless...yet its accepted the way you sense. Now you ought to element out it to her and perchance cheer her up into preventing it, yet do not merely boldly shout out that you won't be able to take it anymore. certain pals might want to be there for another yet you're nevertheless human...you'll nevertheless sense this way. shop constructive and it will make her constructive and he or she shouldn't whinge anymore...except she really is a spoiled brat. This not in any respect makes you a nasty chum notwithstanding, I recommend if that change into my i ought to in all likelihood smack my chum precise out of it with assistance from now...
2016-11-02 08:16:08 · answer #5 · answered by andry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn a deaf ear, or leave. If you dont like listening to her, tell her to shut the FU_k up. Ask her if she would like some cheese with that whine.
2007-02-04 10:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that its annoying she whines all the time, but say it in a light way so she wont get hurt or something...
2007-02-04 10:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try taking the conversation over. change the subject. maybe you dont talk enough so she's compensating for ur silence? play a board game or take a walk at the mall and go people or window watching. peace
2007-02-04 10:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she'd like a little cheese with that whine ?
2007-02-04 10:56:56 · answer #9 · answered by double_klicks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say ________{friends name} there a rumor going around school about a gurl who whines 2 much and people r going against her
2007-02-04 11:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by lady_drama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋