I do - but I want to hear your views on this.
It's not that he doesn't kiss me but I'm always the instigator and most times he backs off from me and at other times he kisses back but I can tell he's not in to it.
2007-02-04 10:34:42 · 23 answers · asked by misscynic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lt sounds very weird to me. My hubby always instigates the kisses, well not always l do as well but it should be a mutual thing with happy partners. l would definitely be speaking to him about his feelings, you could have problems in paradise l think. Or has he always been this way ?? l hope there is no-one else in hubby's life, speak to him. Best of luck to you
2007-02-04 11:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think back on when you first started dating. Was he kissing you then? If your answer is yes:
1. Have you done something with your mouth that grossed him out?
2. I have read some where that when a man does not kiss you he is not into you. I wish I could remember where I read that and I would reference it for you.
It just makes sense though!
Talk to him and tell him your observation and feelings and what can the two of you do about it?
The answer may hurt, but at least it is better to know now than later-right? Good luck o.k.
See poem:
"Now That’s Love"
I know what love is like:
Truly loving someone is giving them the freedom to love you or not
Truly loving yourself is choosing to be someone who uses that freedom to love you
Yea, now that’s love
June 19, 2006 by Arene
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2007-02-04 10:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes some guys are not the kissy kinda guys. I know my dad my mom said wasn't a big kissing kinda guy, nor is my husband. It could be something more that he is not telling you, or he just doesn't particularly like showing his affection in that way.LOL I just talked to my husband about this as I wrote this down and he was like I'll kiss you, I kiss you. He said that sometimes you just go through phases where you kiss a lot, to a week where all you do is have crazy sex.. and not as much
kissing, Just goes with what you feel and when the moment
strikes. I'd suggest talking to him about this and how you really feel, I did with my husband. I told him I love the expression and I love expressing myself in that way.
2007-02-04 10:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by bulldogsr2cute 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband won't kiss me either, and I am very attractive, he says he is not really a kissy person. I love to kiss and I miss it. All I can do is remember the men who did kiss me and how good they made me feel. I also dream about kissing men and it almost seems real until I wake up to my husband. I try to hurry and go back to sleep so my dream will continue!!! Anyway don't feel bad If things don't work out my next man will have to be a great kisser.
2007-02-04 10:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by LETICIA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt mean he is cheating on you, Thats stupid and whoever said that is stupid!!
Me and my husband kissed alot back when we first met. when u say kiss im guessing u mean like a full on snog, not a peck on the lips lol. But we kinda just grew out of it, as long as he is still intimate and loving towards you whats the problem? me and my hubby are always hugging, and touching eachother, he kisses me goodbye in the morning before he goes to work, and then again when he comes home and again just before we goto sleep, but we never go into a full on snog.
Just because he doesnt kiss me in this way doesnt mean i think he is cheating on me or is going to, because we are intimate in other ways.
If it reallllly bothers you that much... then u should just ask him straight why he wont kiss you. But im pretty certain that there is nothing wrong with you, and he loves u kisses or no kisses.
2007-02-04 11:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by kazimsgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's strange because, I am actually the same way. I'm not the kissy type of person, and I love my husband very much, and no I'm not cheating. I've never been that type, and my husband is. Now don't get me wrong, in the heat of passion, I'm kissing a little, but it still kinda grosses me out when I think about it.........The GERM THING. I don't even, drink after him, or even eat off of his spoon or fork, or drink out of his glass, but that's just me, and he respects that.......Maybe you need to just leave it alone, and wait till he comes around and kiss you, instead of you being so pushy......It may mean more to him, emotionally, and to you physically.
2007-02-04 11:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by charms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just may not be the romantic type... this is normal for some guys and there are some women like this too. Is he acting weird towards you in other ways? If he is he may be cheating or having an affair. You also need to ask him why he does not care for kissing at times. Maybe he feels smothered at times.
2007-02-04 10:40:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he used to kiss you and has recently stopped then I would say something is very wrong and I agree with a few of the men here stating that kissing is very intimate to men, There may be someone else, he may not feel the same, his feelings may be in conflict, only he knows and chances are he won't just come out and say it, men don't "talk".
2007-02-04 10:52:16 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most men get that way after being married. At first they like it because it leads to sex when it is a new relationship. Then they get lazy and feel the need to not kiss anymore.
2007-02-04 15:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do find it strange but i cant believe some of the answers here..i dont think not kissing someone is a sign of cheating..Everybody always assumes cheating and thats stupid when u DONT even know the person..jeez
2007-02-04 11:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋