I have a question.
Alright,
I am 17 years old
and on Friday evening I was hanging out with who I thought was my friend, and we would always spend the night at my house with a few other friends, well this night at 3am he decides he wants to have sex and he attempts to do so i did not realize that he was actually going to do so. He knew I was not on birth control nor did he use a condom and no im not stupid i know thats bad. Im not on birth control because i havent had sex with anyone until this happend. He did this for under 5 minutes, I stopped it. I am still very afraid that i might somehow be pregnant so saturday night i went and got the day after pill just in case "plan b" took the doses as i was suppose to one a 10pm and the other at 10am 12 hours apart as said. I took the pill within 24 hours when it said you have up to 72 hours to do so. I am still going to take a pregnancy test because I am very nervous still. I know this is all crazy do you think I am going to be alright??
2007-02-04 10:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think you will be alright, but a pregnancy test would not work for at least a few weeks so don't bother taking one now. Also, the way you describe the experience it sounds like he forced himself on you. Is this true or are you just not ready to admit responsibility? If he really did this without your consent, then you were raped and should seek help. Sex does not happen by accident. It has to be consensual on both sides.
2007-02-04 10:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all i'm very sorry this happened to you. the chances are very small that you are pregnant. go ahead and take the pregnancy test if you want to, but you took the pills right away, so i doubt you are pregnant. as for the guy, what he did was rape, PLEASE report him. he cannot get away with this unpunished and go out and do the same thing to other girls. it doesn't matter if you were drunk or high or anything (i'm not saying you were, but just in case), he does NOT have the right to force himself on you. i would also recommend some counseling because what he did could have some negative effects on your future relationships. it may be hard for you, but you sound very responsible and i'm sure you will be able to deal with it. =)
2007-02-05 12:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yu will be fine. You did all the right things and the chances of you being pregnant are very slim, especialy if you took the morning after pill. Of course you should still take the test but do not worry in the meantime. What you do need to worry about are two things. Your choice of frinds and your ability to say NO! If you cannot have an upfront conversation with this friend about whether you want to go further or stop, then you should not be hanging out with him. If you wanted to start getting intimate with him (kissing, snuggling etc) but you did not want to go farther you need to learn to have in your head a do not cross zone (no under the clothes touching, or no below the belt, no under the underwear, etc) and CLEARLY communicate this to any future partner. "My rule for the relationship right now is- No touching below my belt. " or "my rule right now is no touching under my pants" If you cannot communicate this clearly you should not be getting int intimate situations. If you can communicate it clearly but the other person will not hear you or listen you need to be able to say NO, and say you have violated my rule, if you do it again I am leaving and if they do it again...LEAVE and do not go back. Start learning what you wat now and learning to speak up for yourself before anything worse happens.
2007-02-04 10:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by drjen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never initiate Plan A without a plan B. You are smart to think of a Plan C, as well!
2016-05-24 06:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan B works. You don't have anything to worry about. As long as you took the doses as you were suppose to, you should be fine. If you are still unsure, you should go see your doctor.
2007-02-04 10:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by crodriguez1010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no telling, guys usually have a pre ejaculation, but if your takeing the morning after pill, perhaps it may work. Take a breath whatever happens, you'll still have to wait....
2007-02-04 10:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Novak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll be fine but from what your saying and how you put it it sounds like you did not want to do anything with him and he forced you if this is what happened you should go to the police and let them know don't hid it and if you don't want to get him into trouble just think that if he did it to you what is to make him stop from hurting some one else please if he did make you do something you didn't want to go to the police before he hurts someone else.
2007-02-04 10:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by just bored 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl... you need to call the police... that is rape, and he needs to take responsibility for his actions!!
As far as being pregnant... I think you'll be okay... you did everything right... you're just going to have to wait and take a test in a few weeks if your period doesn't come first.
2007-02-04 10:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl it will be okay. If you took the morning after pill it should be ok and plus if the guy didnt finish then you shouldnt sweat it.
2007-02-04 10:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by cynthia10415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye i think ur alrite, but if he pre comed u mite b. ye id take a test in bawt a week or so . good luk x
2007-02-08 02:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋