arethere any lesbans out there with advice.im thirteen and confused
2007-02-04 10:07:08 · 22 answers · asked by dimepiece 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's too early to decide on something like that. Feelings of love, attraction and affection for members of the same sex are extremely common. Lucky you! You don't need to assign yourself to any particular group. Give yourself time to explore and find out exactly who you are. Good luck, dear.
2007-02-04 10:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your confused because your 13... ODD AGE!!! can you talk to your parents??? how about a friend?? what makes you think your a lez?? at this age, you have alot of hormones, becoming a woman and discovering yourself. i cant tell you its wrong what your feeling, theres not much detail..., but find some one to talk to maybe a school counselor, aunt or truted friend, even if she is a girl. im not a lesbian, in fact im a 43 year old with 4 kids, but if you can talk to people on the internet, you can talk to a friend or professional. dont come to a judgement about your sexuality, you have a long life to live, and will always be challenged... god speed dear.
2007-02-04 10:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by kim t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still very young, and 13 can be a confusing time for anyone. You're going to be a grown-up for a long long time, so just relax and try not to worry about it too much. It will all come clearer, when you're older and ready to deal with it all.
You're far to young to be thinking of having sex with anyone right now anyway, so just give it time honey,. If you still feel this way in a year or so, you should try and talk to your parents, guidance counselor or a trusted grown-up.
I hope this helps..... and hang in there.
*hugs*
2007-02-04 10:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I'm not a lesbian but I was 13 once and I know that the age 13 itself is a confusing time. Take time to think about it. I know that when I was 13 I questioned my sexuality but I came to realize that my life was just scary and confusing and that I just needed to sort through things. I however, am straight. My best friend is gay but she's a lot older and has had time to think about it. In your own time you will just "know" I think.
2007-02-04 10:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by meeke 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A Religion and Spirituality question?...Not so much. And why exactly is it important to you for perfect starngers to try to define your personal sexuality? Are you just trying to be condemned by some unsuspecting do-gooder? If you do not know whether you are a lesbian or not, then perhaps it is because you do not know what the term implies. Study, my child...do your homework and then come again to ask your questions...within the appropriate forum topic.
2007-02-04 10:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well....im not a lesbian....im bi...which is pretty much the same i guess...except i like both....but i'd have to say that i think your too young to understand exactly what you are right now. not that im much older then you...im 15. but still. i just think your confused right now....i think everyone goes through a stage where they are confused. give it time and soon you will figure out whether your straight, lesbian, or bi. just make sure you give yourself some time to figure things out. goodluck.
2007-02-04 10:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by hottie555 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lesbians with advice. Seek them out but also keep in mind that bisexuality is far more common than usually acknowledged, you shouldn't ever feel obliged to put all your chips in one bowl.
2007-02-04 10:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw, well dont worry about what others think., dont come out until ur out of high school cuz kids are VERY IMMATURE. and there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian im straight guy but i feel bi and who knows i am probably BI. i'm attarcted to guys/girls.. but just be urself. =]
2007-02-04 10:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confusion is not good. The best advice I can tell you is to have a heart to heart talk with your mom. Go from there.....I wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-04 10:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they say that puberty is the time when you are confused and exploring people and thing s around you..it s just a faze or it is real...when you meet the right person you will know.good luck....and BTW-there is nothing wrong if yo are
2007-02-04 10:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Josipa D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋