i told my bestfriend that i still have feelings for him...?

Question

in a email ... && he didnt reply ... or nothing
&& i think ive lost him as a friend...what should i do?

i still dont know if he read the email...but since i told him to read it he seems a bit weird around me.....like more nicer or something =S

Answer 1

Well the thing is, you went with email which saves you the hurt and emabarassment if he doesnt feel the same way but the problem with that as you can see now is that you are tortured now in the meantime. Does he usually check his email regularly? did you pour your heart out in the last email or just mention it casually? You knew that revealing your feelings to him was a risk and if you thought doing so would chance you losing him as a friend it probably would have been better to keep your feelings to yourself, especially since you said you "still" have feelings for him i assume you told him once before. What was his reaction when you told him last time? you can probably expect him to react the same way. it may take awhile for him to be able to comfortably be friends again, especially if he doesnt feel the same way for you, there is really nothing else to do, what's said is said, the only thing i can think of is if you can forget about the feelings and tell him that you know he doesnt feel the same way and you are sorry you keep putting him in this awkward position and that his friendship means more to you than anything and you will try not to keep forcing something more.
good luck

Answer 2

Ooh, that sucks. Thats the worst, telling him in a e-mail... it's easiest for them to escape. Bring it up later in person, ease into it. Send him a normal e-mail, lke asking him to go to the movies with some friends or sometin, then the next day ask him when the last time he'd been on because you had asked him something. This way you wouldn't sound obsessed about him answering, It could seem like maybe you just needed to know the answer about the movies. If he really is a good friend, he should understand no one can control their feelings about these things, and put it behind him if it makes hium feel uncomfortable. (although he may actually like you and is figuring out how to answer ; ] ) Good Luck!

Answer 3

DON'T CALL HIM ANYMORE. Let it be. When he's ready to talk to you, by phone or email, LET HIM CONTACT YOU. Leave him alone. Seriously. I mean if he felt the same, he'd contact you as soon as he read it. But I doubt you've lost your friend. He probably just doesn't know how to say he doesn't feel that way, so he's just doing what he knows best to do and that's staying away. Just give it some time and he'll be back. Don't give up, but just don't push this. You can't make someone feel the same way.

Good luck and God bless

Answer 4

He might have not checked his e-mail over the weekend. Just wait for him to call you now. Things like that are risks in life and you might have done the best thing by telling him. Just sit and wait.

Answer 5

I guess the best thing to do is to wait. Maybe he just has to think and analyze it over. But he should be proud of you and your sincerity and see how difficult it is to say such profound affirmations. Good luck !

Answer 6

If he is your bestfriend you should know his number, so give him a call and get to the bottom of it. I hope he doesn't have a girlfriend, because if he does that will be a problem.

Answer 7

May be he has not opened his mail.It can be as simple as that.

Answer 8

maybe he hasn't checked his e-mail amybe it would be better to call him. good luck

Answer 9

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