Me and my friend Judy have been best friends since we where 5 years old we are both 25 right now. Well last night me,her,and another friend of ours where on our way to go see a movie. Well the car I drive is a Buick and its really bumby on the roads and she suggested that maybe its the shocks but we have had them looked at and they are fine. I told her a mechanic told my dad once that this kind of buick is bumpy and in the cold it gets worse. Well I turned the music up to a song I like a lot and looked back and saw her head wobbling all over the place so me and my other friend laughed and so did she. And she said Im telling something is really wrong with this car Ive never seen a car be like this before. I had to yell over the music once again that a mechanic told me this and she out of no where yelled at me and said Im sick of u being rude to me and hit me in the back of my head we have never hit eachother before ever. She knows I just had a brain surgery. What should I do?
2007-02-04 10:01:24 · 6 answers · asked by Amy D 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I ran out of room to finish the rest. What should I do? I dont even know what i did wrong!. All day that day we where fine nothing was wrong we got along fine as always. Should I call her? or wait on her to call me?. I just dont get it. We have been in worse arguments then this and never hit one another so it confuses me. Plus the fact I just had a brain surgery done in november and am still having problems and her knowing that and hitting me in the back of my head hurts me a lot. She is not a mean person very good hearted and not the type to just hit someone so i dont understand this at all.
2007-02-04 10:04:09 · update #1
I think your friend wasn't really thinking about what she did to you, by hitting you on the back of your head and after saying what she said to you. I am sure she meant well, because all three of you were already laughing in the car. This nothing to worry about, she was probably just kidding with you.
She probably had forgotten that you had surgery because you three were just enjoying yourself, unless she wasn't, with the bumpy ride. If she was okay with you afterwords, then don't let this little thing break up your friendship. Just apologize to her about her being in the back seat on a bumpy ride. Maybe she will apologize back! (smile)
2007-02-04 10:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up and chat like you normally do... just let it slip by and don't try to judge her and see if she apologizes.... she may have felt a little jealousy with the other friend being there.. and she may have gotten a little hurt when you yelled over the music... don't take it too hard.... she is your best friend and you love her and need her in your life... she just may surprise you and will apologize..... hang tough and good luck. Sorry about your brain surgery, she probably didn't think...........
2007-02-04 10:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by sushihen2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a weird story.
confront her.
but be civil and no name calling or yelling.
maturity and a calm disposition will go a long way.
but be sure to listen, and if you arent getting out of the relationship what you feel you deserve...then you should be looking for another one.
regardless of the time you have been bestfriends, its never too late to meet someone else.
2007-02-04 10:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her that you had a brain surgery before. .
P.S Why did you had a brain surgery before? Good Luck
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2007-02-04 10:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow seems like she was just having a bad day and took it out on you i don't think that what she did was intentional. You should call her and ask her what is going on with her.
2007-02-04 10:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by hey u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call her and confront her.. no name calling, just gentle.. you guys were having fun maybe she forgot you had brain surgery.. good luck..
2007-02-04 10:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋