my self esteem is sooo low! If i hear ppl talking i always think they r talking about me!! I think i am fat and ugly (i have pics on my messenger {jennie_loves_you1991}) Then everyone says i look like a squirrel! It isnt mainly that they say it but they say it when my self esteem is high!!! How can i keep it high w/o them breaking it down?
2007-02-04 09:55:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
how old are you...? im feeling the same way right now..well mostly because of a guy but its alright..your friends will build u up..i have one now talking to me..
2007-02-04 09:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen self esteem has to come from with in. I remember when I had low self esteem, but as I got older I saw the positive things I had. You just need to focus on what you do have like maybe pretty eyes, or a beautiful smile. If not those things then maybe you are witty or funny, intelligent?? But others shouldn't be able to define you. If you have self confidence you will attract more people to you. I know you have some great attributes just take a deeper look at your self, and don't let others define you. You are the only one who can make her own way. Good Luck!!!!!
2007-02-04 21:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by kt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem based on looks is way overated. Develop character, integrity, thoughtfulness, consideration, and other good qualities of character and then you'll have something worth having self esteem about.
Beauty fades too swiftly to reliably mark your self worth.
2007-02-04 17:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself! It is easier said than done but before you can get your self esteem up tell yourself all of the good qualities about yourself. Everyone has some! You'll be surprised how many good people will respond to you once you do that! Good luck!
2007-02-04 17:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am exactly the same and i even got called a squirrel too because they said my nose crinkles up like one when i smile and i always think that people are talking about me when i walk past or whatever but i put some make up on for one of our parties and all the comments i got were all oohs and ahhs and you look so pretty and stuff like that so now i have begun to realise that you have to try first
2007-02-04 18:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by mara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad... Most people are jealous hearted. If they say this when you are feeling good about youself it is to tear you down. Don't give in to this. keep your self esteem no matter what. It's hard, but don't care what other people think.
2007-02-04 18:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever watched Ugly Betty?
2007-02-04 18:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a problem with the waay you look, why not try going to a place where they can give you a makeover, cut your hair and do your makeup, it will do wonders for your confidence
2007-02-04 17:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by whateverbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to learn to shake it off. ppl can be harsh and cruel, so along as u keep telling urself ur beautiful, its will DEFIANTLY will show! trust me, i get teased for being tall
2007-02-04 18:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang around people that arn't nice to you. They are not your friends.
2007-02-04 17:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by Myglassesarealwaysclean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋