it works with any one I have ever tried. And I have care about them in some level.. and I might have thought I am in love with very few of those man too. I used to pick a guy from the crowd who thinks he is all that and a player make him fall in love and back off giving him a test of his medicine.. anyway recently I met someone and for the first time I feel I am really in love and it is scaring me a lot. When I am not with him I think about him all the time and I miss him madly. But when I am with him I find it very hard to let him know how I feel and I feel like I got time maybe later and then at the end of the date I feel bad for taking too much time and leaving him a bet confuse if he is a friend or more. And I always feel the butterflies.. when I want to call him.. dialing the number like over and over till I finally hit the on button on the phone..
any advice how I can fight these feelings?
2007-02-04 09:55:10 · 14 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have no doubt in my mind that he does really love me. I know he would never hurt me in anyway he is really a great person
2007-02-04 10:01:00 · update #1
Say what? I guess congrats are in order.
2007-02-04 09:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you are going to get past these feelings is time. When you have been with this guy long enough for you to trust him. It is good that you don't jump right in and trust someone. It is healthy to only give a certain amount of trust at first, and then making them earn the rest. You are just playing it smart. You also need a balance... only give them the amount of love you can trust them with as well. Balancing the two is key. Trust and love go hand and hand.
2007-02-04 10:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey maybe he is also feeling the same about you so you never know then just ask him that you have very strong and honest feelings for a guy and ask his advice on what to do note his reaction and confirm then pull it to him that the person his him.
say to him that "there are plenty of fish in the sea but actually you made a lasting impression on me" ok!
anyway you will have to ask him one day to know for sure right so why not now and in this manner.
go for it you hav nothing to worry.
good luck.....
2007-02-07 12:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue why you are even fighting theses feelings. Consider yourself lucky, and GO FOR IT!! Don't play him like you did some of the other guys(or play games i mean). I dont know what your "talent" is to make all these guys fall for you- but remember- looks go away, and health too sometimes- so i hope its all in your personality....now go call him!!! Ha Good luck. :)
2007-02-04 10:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by skygirlchristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have built a wall around your heart and feelings. Maybe this person is there to help you let go. I suggest just go with the flow. And if it feels good to be with him, then do it. Do not fight your feelings!
2007-02-04 09:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by glynis18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The butterflies will go away in time. For now, just keep telling him how much you appreciate him, and don't worry. If you want, explain to him how things were before you met him, and why you're nervous. I think he'll understand.
2016-05-24 06:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess that's what they say 'what comes around goes around?'
not sure if that's a talent anyway...and why would you do such a thing purposefully to a guy? youre wearing your heart on your sleeve.
what feelings are you trying to fight? anyway, if he's interested he'll answer the phone. then talk. peace
2007-02-04 10:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're scared that this guy is going to do to you what you did to a lot of other guys. You've, in a way, given yourself a dose of your own medicine. Talk it over with him; your fears and all that. He'll probably understand.
2007-02-04 10:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why fight these feelings? You might have a relationship that most people dream of having. Accept these felings, and maybe you'll find that One.
2007-02-04 09:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling fear. Fear of rejection just like you rejected "all" those other men. But I think you should tell this new person your true feelings. At least he would know how you feel. Good luck.
2007-02-04 10:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u have hurt others emotionally and now your afraid that u will be the one hurt. your looking back on your past, and wondering if someone will do it to u.
2007-02-05 02:17:15 · answer #11 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋