it works with any one I have ever tried. And I have care about them in some level.. and I might have thought I am in love with very few of those man too. I used to pick a guy from the crowd who thinks he is all that and a player make him fall in love and back off giving him a test of his medicine.. anyway recently I met someone and for the first time I feel I am really in love and it is scaring me a lot. When I am not with him I think about him all the time and I miss him madly. But when I am with him I find it very hard to let him know how I feel and I feel like I got time maybe later and then at the end of the date I feel bad for taking too much time and leaving him a bet confuse if he is a friend or more. And I always feel the butterflies.. when I want to call him.. dialing the number like over and over till I finally hit the on button on the phone..
any advice how I can fight these feelings?
2007-02-04 09:54:35 · 3 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have no doubt in my mind that he does really love me. I know he would never hurt me in anyway he is really a great person
2007-02-04 10:01:17 · update #1
Sounds like love to me! Maybe he IS your first real love! And maybe the things you have done in the past to "make" men fall in love with you are making you suspicious of this new man. That would make it caution and guilty concern. So many women (LIKE ME!!) would love to be at your stage of romance and still feeling around in the dark to find your way! How Exciting!!! Enjoy every moment of this!! You don't have to let him know you have played this game. You may have finally met your match and it scares you because your heart is on the line. You Can Handle This!! Just Think!! Good Luck!! @8-)
2007-02-04 10:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it works with you every time so just call him and get it over with! Then you can get on with your dating him and live happily ever after until you find the next person you fall for or who thinks he's all that. Go for it! What do you have to loose?
2007-02-04 18:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you fight them, you probably will feel you have won, and then they will snap you right back like a rubber band. there can be no gray zone. either go for it or get away from him.
but my advice is: if you do like him, go for it! deeper satisfaction over the long run is better than shallow satisfaction in the short run.
2007-02-04 17:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋