my boyfriend and i just recently had a fight and well my parents are really strict and well they never let me go out anywhere and he knows that. then he invites me to a game and my friend was over at my house and well i ask my mom she says yes then my dad gets drunk and i can no longer go and he doesn't own a cell phone and he had already left to the game, so i decided to call his mom and tell her my situation and she tells me that she will let him know so he calls me and totally yells at me ans tell me that i always leave him like that and i told him that it wasn't true and he got mad at me is it really my fualt. then he would tell me that even when things go wrong he tries to be there with me and that i don't he says that he won't invite me anywhere no more
2007-02-04 09:48:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no....b/c if he cant accept your parents's ways...then he doesnt care about you...so get rid of this loser....
2007-02-04 09:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Word 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame yourself. Aparently he is the one with the problem. He should respect the fact that you can go. I would be mad at you dad for getting drunk and I would tell your mom to take you anyways. You need to be able to get out and do things. That was disrespectful of your mom saying you could go and then your dad gets drunk and can no longer go. Is the reason you couldn't go because your dad got drunk? That sucks. If he's that mad at you then you shouldn't waste your time with him. If anything he should respect the fact that you have to obey your parents. He is just hurt from not being able to see you but you shouldn't allow him to take it out on you. Good luck with everything!
2007-02-04 17:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault.....so don't let it bother you. If that's the way he wants to act, then my advice to you is to dump him, and find a boyfriend that will understand your situation at home. Just be patient at home, eventually you'll have some freedoms. Just make sure you abide by your parent's rules.....strictly abide by them. If your parents think they can't trust you, they you won't have any privelges, but if they can trust you, and you've proved to them that you can be trusted, then you'll have more privelges, and do more things. Like I said, be patient......we were all young once. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-04 17:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loser,your father is a drunk!!!!! and your caught in the middle.no it was not your fault,,,,but afterall what does it matter since he aint gonna ask you out no where else...so then you just sho up at places he will be to show him SEE i could have come here wid ya if i had wanted to...flaunt yourself in front of him...shake it up...but then i like to make people eat there words anyway.....
2007-02-04 17:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very immature and only concerned about what makes him happy.Furthermore, he needs to learn to be flexible...kick him to the curb
2007-02-05 02:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me he is a j@ck@ss. get rid of him. if he doesnt go anywhere with you whats the point of even being together
2007-02-04 17:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by cowboys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not your fault. if he cannot respect the fact that you have restrictions on what you can and cannot do then you need to find someone who will. you deserve better than this.
2007-02-04 18:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but please, next time put commas and periods and delete the "well' because they are confusing.you aren't to blame, your boyfriend is
2007-02-04 17:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard of: commas, & periods
2007-02-04 17:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by shaggy m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋