I am a very nice person but girls are always talking about me behind my back and making fun of me. I have no clue why. I haven't done anything to them except be very nice. Can anyone give me advice on making friends???
2007-02-04 09:40:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sounds like they are insecure!
2007-02-04 09:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Stu pid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably only certain not very nice girls that do this. For some reason these type of people always seem to have a hold and know your want to be part of their group. They may not even be bad people but like to feel like they are the 'in' people which is really just immature but it's easier if in a little group to hurt the individual. Just play it down don't be rude but certainly don't go out of your way to be nice to them, that just makes you all the more vulnerable in their eyes. Millions and millions of girls out there don't worry yourself that you must find some girl friends as in NOW just go easy and you'll get there
2007-02-04 10:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls only talk about other girls behind their backs for one reason and one reason alone - Jealousy! That's right, we all do it! There's always someone out there with longer legs or straighter hair and all we do is *****!
Of course there are other girls out there too. The ones that feel more secure with themselves and need a good mate to have a laugh with! Theses are the kind of girls you need to be friends with.
Making friends is easy, but you just need to find ones that have a similar attitude to yourself. Trust me, I didn't have a good friend for years, and then I got a new job and out of the blue I found the best friend I could ever wish for! Just be your self and don't give up hope!
2007-02-06 02:05:31 · answer #3 · answered by fairyprincesscorinne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u feel u need to b mates with females?? i have only got one female friend of 8 yrs, the rest of my mates r all male.....females tend to b bitchey n want to do nothing but stab u in the bk or steal ur boyfriend......ok not all girls but most of us!!
men can b animals but they r soo much fun n apart from the wind, pub bawls n footi (if u dont like footi...thats a prob, i on the other hand am a bigger footi fan then my other half...lol.....GO RED DEVILS!!) they r wicked ppl, they dont wanna change u, n they except u for the person that u r!! just try not to turn into one of them tho.....i have to put on a skirt every now n then to remind myself, lol. jk!!
dont b on a downfall about not having any female friends, ur better off with decent ppl, n some decent women will come ur way n b ya mate im sure, but for now.....enjoy ur life being who u r!! take care xx
2007-02-08 02:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by katluvsu4eva2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its either there jealous of you r there r very insecure about them selves i know its hard to think that your friends r talking about yoi but if they r yhen they r not your friendsstop being nice to them and move on to bigger and better things i can gaurentee when thet see you moving on they will feel bad it sounds silly but its just the way people like them think
2007-02-04 11:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by madamx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. what else can you do. obviously something is wrong with them if you are being nice. Maybe try and talk to them, and see how they feel about you. tell them how you feel. Or, if that doesnt work.....be mean back, i mean, if they are like that the, what the hey!!
2007-02-04 10:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by deleted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are jealous, ignore them. It doesn't get any better at work, believe me. Just get tougher and ignore it
2007-02-04 14:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋