one of my friends said that another one of my friends was stupid and mean and i don't know what i should say or do, is this friend really a true friend?
2007-02-04 09:36:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just because one friend doesn't like the another one of your friends dosen't make them a bad friend. I've had friends like that. You just tell that friend you don't want to bash your other friend because they haven't done anything to upset you yet. You are entitled to more than one friend even if they don't get along.
2007-02-04 09:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by elie101_forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I can't say this friend is a true friend if they're going to talk behind their back. It's up to you, but, I would have a chat to this friend it's not nice, etc. Otherwise, I would simply get rid of that friend. That friend is a bad apple.
2007-02-04 17:43:26 · answer #2 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not something a true friend would do, this person is trying to get you to commit to either her side or say something so she can just cause trouble, If it ever happens again say I am not going to listen to you bad mouth one of my friends see you later and walk away do not say you are sorry, she needs to know what she is doing is not acceptable
2007-02-04 17:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say if she brings it up, say "Sorry, don't talk about friends behind their back" and walk away. She isn't a good friend at all! For all you know, right now, she could be talking about you to the one she usually talks to you about.
2007-02-04 17:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Smurf Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that things are really natural with friends..
some friends will just say that because they're too angry..
it's just a test for your friendship..
to avoid your friends saying your taking sides..why not just listen to them and if you think the problem's getting bigger..try making an open forum..where you and your friends can say their problems and solve it...it's the thing we are doing when me and my friends are having problems..
piece of advice...if you think what you are going to comment or say is something that is against or will hurt others, you'd better just keep quite ...
hope it helps..
2007-02-04 17:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by yui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not when you're suppose to be a friend but talking like that behind someones back. Only if they had a fight then you can try to understand that they are angry at each other but not when everyone is at peace and you're talking behind that friend's back.
2007-02-04 17:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that friend is no true friend, a friend does not do that to another person, say good bye and find new ones.
2007-02-04 17:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well were you guys playing around but if you guys were not than i think that friend is not a true friend cause maybe she is talking behind your back but i would tell your friend and see what happens
2007-02-04 17:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by AnAlUp3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth and it shell set you free ,and not only that , That is what good friend really do no matter what ., aniseed is the best way to go , just tell her you do not like what she or the other are doing .
2007-02-04 17:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she said it because your other friend said something about her if she was a real friend she wouldn't let that get in the way of your guys' relationship
2007-02-04 18:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋