does any woman out there have this problem? the only time you can climax is by mastrubation.is this a physical or mental thing,and should the person i'm talking about see a doctor?
2007-02-04 09:23:08 · 9 answers · asked by stormy 6 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You need to relax there is something that is bothering you about your partner
2007-02-04 09:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can climax through sex now but I used to not be able to. It's hard but try not to think about having an orgasm, just go with the flow. The first time I did I was on top and also playing with my clitoris- it works well because you are in control, and your man will love you watching you pleasure yourself.
Also try getting on top of him but facing towards his feet- when he is inside you may feel like you are going to wet yourself, that means you have hit the g-spot, stick with that position and it should not take long.
It's a fantastic feeling when you do climax during sex and it will feel awesome for him as the walls inside your vagina will contract.
Good luck and go crazy :)
2007-02-04 11:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by renee.emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be many things. When a person masturbates, they know what feels good - the pressure and the spot(s) - and what is going to get them where they want to be. However, it could be that your friend needs to be more communicative with her partner about what feels good - pressure, place, cadence, etc.. If there is a feeling of unease when she is with the other person, that could take away from the ability to climax as well.
2007-02-04 09:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by rtistathrt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common problem. You may be tense when you have sex with a partner, try to relax.
Also, your partner needs to know what type of stimulation works for you. Each woman is different.
2007-02-04 09:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by ajtheactress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it is physical if orgasm happens with masturbation. Mental, probably more so. Sounds like maybe some sexual inhibition issues. See a doctor.
2007-02-04 09:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bakem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it usually means that the guys are just interested in satisfying themselves and not you. i bet when you find a guy who takes care of your needs first then you will have no problem climaxing.
2007-02-04 09:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by george 2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that alot of women can't climax during intercourse. Try using a toy during intercourse.
2007-02-04 09:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by toplesbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i think your completely nomral.. acrually thats the only way for me to! im okay with it, i have a wonderful partner that understands that this is the only way for me to have pleaseure, once you find someone that understands sex gets alot more fun and all that more pleaseureable! good luck
2007-02-04 09:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lillian S. Phx Arizona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is absolutely natural and not something to be worried about. it's really just because you know what's going on with your body and what feels right, wheras sex may not satisfy her.
2007-02-04 09:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by m_sleesmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋