Why does he demand hugs from me every 10 minutes and ask to hang out every day. After dating him for a month, he told me "your not the one for me". His excuse for us not being together anymore was "your not the person i thought you were, you've changed". But the thing is, I haven't. Before we broke up, we fought frequently and I believe i have been put in situations where I can't be the most agreeable person. I've known this person for about half a year and he seems decent but I can't help but to think that he's being a little selfish and controlling. We used to fight over little things like how i would put my shoe up on the dashboard of his car and getting mad and leaving his house without saying goodbye. He thinks that we are uncompatible. I still have feelings for him. How can convince him that we aren't? I'm so confused, what does he want from me? Am i some kind of safety blanket?
2007-02-04 09:11:50 · 2 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, i think you are a safety blanket for him. you need to talk to him and find out exactly how he views you and then you can move on from there.
2007-02-04 10:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you my ex and I are "friends" but sometimes I think he wants more again yet when I confront him he denies it. To make it worse his father who lives overseas sent me a christmas gift so i myself am somewhat confused about where I stand with him too.
2007-02-04 17:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋