Girls, don't you hate being the less attractive friend, I mean I love my friend, but she always gets apprached by men, and when we are together, guys always approach her and not me, if there are 2 guys approaching us, please believe she is 1st pick. I'm not jealous, I'm just annoyed because I can not get a guy to approach me if I walked down the street naked. I dress up and fix my hair and still never get approached, she wears her work cloths from taco bell and does not fix her hair, but still gets approached, the funny thing is we are both are shy people, so it has nothing to do with personality? Has anyone else experienced this? Don't you hate being the "unattractive friend"?
2007-02-04 08:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I've never been the unattractive friend, now that I think about it.
2007-02-04 08:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that most models are tall ... and they're typically very attractive! Always remember: when you find the right person, chances are that they will love you for who you are inside and for the way they feel when they're with you. Instead of worrying about your height, just keep working on becoming the type of person you want to be, and treating others the way you want to be treated. You'll be way ahead of the crowd ... and much happier, too! Good luck!
2016-05-24 05:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i hated being the "unattractive friend" when i was a 14 me and my friend would always be approuched by guys and at first they would go to her and not me. I guess that some people look at other "stuff" other then personality. it could be looks. and of course the chest could be part of it too.don't worry guys will realize you're exactly like your friend and come to you too. It's just a stage that all people go through. email me on how it goes
2007-02-04 08:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mommy_of_4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are, in fact, the "less attractive" friend then why don't you try developing other aspects of yourself to make you even more desirable. Let's face it, men are visual...so you will need to really try to emphasise your good features...but there has to be personality to keep a guy interested. Take advantage of the fact that your friend can pull guys and start talking to them, if you are fun and interesting you will become someone they want to hang out with. AKA stop being shy, it's never going to get you anywhere.
2007-02-04 08:13:55 · answer #4 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
here's a news flash for you, guys approach girls in bars they think they can 'get lucky' with, not the prettiest girls, so, your friend is putting out vibes that she is easy, and you aren't, Its as simple as that. Buy a wonderbra, show a little more cleavage, and I suspect you'll getjust as many guys hitting on you.
2007-02-04 08:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course!!
i think every girl has experienced it.. if not felt it before.
im sure no one thinks you as the less attractive one, your probably just very self conscious of it.
if your shy, just strut your stuff and be confident, im pretty sure soon your friend will be worrying about being the less atractive one. =D
2007-02-04 08:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋