he made me to love him but after a while his behavior changed and he has a very bad temper to me. maybe he is waiting for my call but I cant do that .I have his phon number but I dont know what should I do.he is 29 and single.help me please.thanks a lot.
2007-02-04 08:04:43 · 21 answers · asked by niloofar s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, just love him from a distance.
Don't even go there!!
Trust me ... just leave it alone.
When you say "he made me love him" .. do you mean he smiled at you, and was kind, and talked to you, maybe outside of class? He was being friendly!! don't misinterpret!
In many universities and colleges, an affair or relationship with a student can get a professor fired!! So just enjoy his class and leave it at that.
2007-02-04 08:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Dreamer, but your Professor can be FIRED for showing a Personal Interest in you. Back off before you cause all KINDS of Professional, Ethical and legal Problems for your Prof and cause him to lose his Teaching Career. He or she is there to TEACH, NOT to roll in the hay with some moonstruck person of questional emotional stability. Your are expected to concentrate on your Studies, NOT on shacking up with your Teacher. He doesn't even know you're alive and doesn't WANT to because you are Trouble with a Capital-T.
Add to that, your Grammar is atrocious; do you really think that a College Professor could be attracted to someone like THAT? Get real.
2007-02-04 08:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Alan H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he realised the danger.. You know it's illegal and he can lose reputation and you may become less popular as people will suspect your grades where artificially elevated. It is assumed having such position as he does gives him an adventage when it comes to getting girls infatuated - status, knowledge, authority attract. On the other hand he's not that old and if the intrest between you two is genuine just wait until you finish uni and then he can be all yours. It's not easy but honestly it's the safest option.
2007-02-04 08:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by alienor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea for you to be too close to your professor right now. It might have a negative effect on your studies. Wait until you graduate. Then both of you can go out to celebrate.
2007-02-04 08:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a serious problem with teachers dating students.There is a reason it is not legal and he can get fired for it.....If he truely loved you he would move mountains to be with you..He would go to his boss and tell them he loves you and scream it for the whole world to hear but he isnt.He is playing it cool as not to get in trouble which tells me this is BAD NEWS and should bring up some red flags for you.....RUNAWAY!! You are most certainly NOt the first girl......and wont be the last.....You could go one step further and report him to the school board....
2007-02-04 08:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him alone. At least from a romantic standpoint.
He probably crossed an ethical line with you, & he knows it but is afraid to admit it to you so he now is trying to undo his mistake by being abrupt with you.
If he doesn't have tenure, (at 29 I doubt that he does) then he stands a good chance of losing his job by getting mixed up with one of his students.
If you really care about him, then leave him alone, & don't try to persue an extra-curicular relationship with him.
2007-02-04 08:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He MADE you love him? What is he? a Mind Controller? At university you are presumably not underage, but if he "loved" you and now wants nothing to do with you, then he only wanted in your pants, not having been in, you aren't a challenge, and therefore no use to him. Get over it.
2007-02-04 08:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by pitmanette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a prestigious interest that he might desire to lose if absolutely everyone famous out. His anger is him discouraging you from coming around him. He realizes that he has overstepped his limitations with a pupil.
2016-10-01 10:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by snead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want a relationship while he's your teacher. That's why he's being emotionally distant. After you finish the class, hit on him and see what happens.
2007-02-04 08:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! He just love you as his student. He loves you becouse you are a great brilliant student in his class. Believe me.
2007-02-04 08:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Khamirul Bin Mataree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋