Do you think this is too soon?My bf and i have been together 1.5 years.I love him very much and we got engaged this christmas.Since we are both still in college also i am only 20 and he is 23 yrs old we are going to wait to get married till at least a year after we both have graduated.So it will probably be at least a 4 yr engament what do you think?Friends think its too soon?
2007-02-04 07:52:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't see the point in getting engaged so soon if your wedding date is so far way.
My husband and I got married after 116 days of dating (just under 4 months) so I can't judge anyone on what is too soon.
2007-02-04 07:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite how well a coupe may know each other, an engagement after only a year and a half is a little soon. However since you say it'll be a 4 year engagement or so, I suggest you wait for that time and not rush anything so you that you both get to know each other better. You wouldn't want to find out you married the wrong person when you're already married.
2007-02-04 08:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not too soon to get engaged, the nice thing about an engagement is, if the relationship goes bad, you can just break up. It would be too soon if you were getting married right away. I think the two of you sound very responsible, so be happy with your engagement, regardless what your friends have to say.
Congratulations.
2007-02-04 07:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on your statement. I don't think its too soon. I think you both should be commended for waiting until after you graduate and find jobs before marrying.
Not to rain on your parade, but during this time you might discover you dont want to marry each other. And you will appreciate the fact that you took this engagment period so serious.
2007-02-04 07:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
,hey only you both know if its right or not and you have been together for a while and why not get engaged its doesn't mean you will marry straight away, and i got engaged after wait for it lol 3 weeks and we are still together 13years later so it can work out the biggest test will be if you move in together that can be a bigger test in the long run !
2007-02-04 08:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Autism's Beautiful Face 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't tell you right from wrong, but I could tell you that the only way to satisfy yourself is by thinking was I ready to get married is this the right thin to do? Oh yeah and you can also figure out if this is the right thing to do by paying attention to how this men treats you, plus think to yourself is 1.5 year enough?
2007-02-04 08:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine its the proper time. im kinda interior of an identical boat im 20 and my boyfriend is nineteen very virtually 20 we were relationship somewhat over 2 years. we were speaking about marriage presently and prefer you we'd like a lengthy engagement. hes been dropping tricks that hes waiting and im wondering a theory is coming quickly. we likely wont get married till we are complete with college yet we do not see something incorrect with an engagement now. in case you already know its who you pick to spend something of your existence with and your household is pleased with it i say pass ahead and convey it up in communique quicker or later. if hes no longer waiting he help you to understand. sturdy success!!
2016-10-17 05:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by gayman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think 1 1/2 years is too soon. Although at your age I would give it 3 years.
2007-02-04 07:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not to soon..Me and my husband got married after only dating for 10 months and we have been happily married 16 yrs.
2007-02-04 10:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think it is to soon. me and my husband only new each-other for about 12 weeks when we got married, and 3 years later we r still together and just had r first child together. only u can no if its right or not. good luck and congrats.
2007-02-04 08:26:25 · answer #10 · answered by greengrass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋