I mean why people think that is bad if their parthner make love with other person?Why they feel so hurt?Is it bad if you drink a coffee or eat sandwitch with other person?Why making of love change tottally the relation between two persons?If you understand that your boy/girlfriend is cheating on you is that enought good reason to break with him/her?
2007-02-04 07:35:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Morality varies from culture to culture. In some countries, arranged marriages have been around since the beginning of time. In some countries, women are not allowed to speak unless spoken to and are never allowed to speak in public. In some religions, polygamy and polyandry have been acceptable. My personal view is that cheating is a horrible thing to do. In some religions, people still use the sacrifice of animals as a form of worship. Some even use people.
My point is that any one group of people can try to justify things that they do. But that still does not make them right. To answer your question, yes, I believe it is very bad if someone cheats. If someone feels the need to cheat on the person they are in a relationship with, then they need to examine whether they should even be in the relationship.
Cheating, however, does not help or fix anything. It usually only makes things worse. The only reason people feel the need to cheat is because deep down they feel like they are not getting what they need from their partner in one way or another. It could be that they are being physically abuse, mentally abused, ignored, patronized, treated like a child, or a number of other reasons. And when it gets to that point, the answer is to first try and talk about your problems with your partner (if they're reasonable and willing to listen and communicate with you). Then, if that doesn't help, or if they just are not willing to listen, then it's time to get out of the relationship. But it's never an excuse to cheat, because all that does is make you look bad. And if the only reason someone is cheating is because they feel like it, that's the WORST reason to cheat, and that person doesn't deserve to have boyfriend or girlfriend.
2007-02-04 07:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by J-Mar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult one simply because everyone has their own perception of betrayal.
One night stand : Not cheating, no intent, not malicious
Striking up a relationship on the side with intent to cheat : Reason to end the relationship immediatly
A casual outing with another man/woman is sometimes seen as a date, as cheating, as betrayal. The only way to escape the stigma of having an open relationship is to make sure that the man/woman you're wanting to be with knows your opinion on the topic beforehand.
That's one issue you should both agree 100% on or someone will get screwed over.
And yes, to most people sex changes everything.
But to some, to me, to a select few I guess, it doesnt.
2007-02-04 15:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by natalie - wandering into want 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHen you eat a sandwich or drink coffee with someone, you aren't an intimate part of yourself. You aren't exchanging parts of your bodies with another. Lots of people become emotionally attached to someone through sex so when someone cheats they are sharing that love and emotion with another. If there is no love or emotion, why cheat then? If you have someone at home who loves you, why not share that physical pleasure with them instead?
If you can't keep it in your pants because someone else attractive has come along then you shouldn't have promised yourself exclusively in the form of a relationship with another person.
2007-02-04 15:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference between going to lunch with someone and sleeping with someone there is no comparison.Why would you want to be with someone that is cheating you should have more respect for yourself.Cheating is wrong and there is no excuse for or justification for it ever.You want to know why it is bad..It is bad because it is wrong and it is very dishonest,disrespectful and it shows that the person has no values.The only people that don't think it is wrong are the cheaters and they are low life pond scum anyway.
2007-02-04 15:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are comparing apples and oranges here. Sex was created to be between two people to make a special commitment . And should not be treated as a hand shake or sharing lunch. I think you need to to some soul searching here
2007-02-04 15:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you really just ask that?
yes it is bad because it makes the other person feel inadequate. and if someone cheats on you chances are they'll do it again. it doesnt matter if they have lunch with someone else because thats a friendly thing. but having sex? thats not friendly. thats way more than friendly and should only be with the person you are in a reliationship with.
2007-02-04 15:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if they cheat its a good reason to break with them cause if they cheat that means that they dont love you enough. For them to sleep with another person is wrong
2007-02-04 15:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by CiCi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual Immorallity(Cheating) is bad. It is not to be compared to just having coffee with someone. Sex is intimate, it has the ability of binding and bonding the persons having it.
2007-02-04 15:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by redeemedmikel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything that leaves someone feeling hurt is not good, and i have still to meet someone who has been in a situation like that where no one got hurt!
Definately bad! Besides if my other half had coffee with someone that was tantamount to sex i would flip!
2007-02-04 15:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong. If you were the person being betrayed, how would you feel? Yes, if your spouse is cheating it is a good reason to leave.
2007-02-04 15:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by QT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋