When I was in Germany 2 and half year ago. I had a bf we wear so in love we wear always together. We wear together for 2 years.
I was about 13 years that time and he was 14. Now I am 18 in 3 weeks and he is 18. We split up last two years. The reason for that is because we moved to UK and he was in Germany and it was hard for him and for me to. So then we desidet to be friends. he got a gf and I have a bf. always when I ring him or he rings me I will be so sad because I will always think back at the old time. Do you think i should still have contakt with him or I should forget him and start a new life ?
2007-02-04 07:35:24 · 9 answers · asked by Ram1989 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Thing is, there may never be anyone better for you than this lad. So while you are apart and having other relationships, you may come to realise that eventually you have to do something to get back together one day.
It's called burning bridges, if you end it all, you can't go back, but if you keep your friendship alive, who knows what may happen in the future?
You may find someone new and realise that this person is the one, and then you an maybe say goodbye to your German friend.
2007-02-04 07:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If staying in contact with him is going to stop you living your life and meeting new people then you should move on but if you can stay in contact as friends and both still see other people then there is no harm done.
2007-02-04 07:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new life with new friends. You are too young to be still wanting a love from your childhood.
2007-02-07 04:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard for my own experiences, best thing to do it try to get over it, it would only make you feel sad or will cause you problems with current b/f, unless you plan on getting back together. good luck
2007-02-04 07:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a new life now! u dont need to change it! just ur veiws, instead of mourning on wat u have lost, b greatfull n thankfull for wat u had, look back, smile and think...."that was great"
fav quote..........memories r always there but the pain does fade!!!
u dont want to lose the friendship u have with him, n just think....who will u b able to chat to about the old times? it would bin a couple of yrs of greatness just flushed away if u just 'forget him,' u dont want that, stay friends but b happy about it. stop troubling urself, u have a brilliant friedship....dont lose it!!
take care
2007-02-08 03:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by katluvsu4eva2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first you ought to no longer be taking into consideration that type of stuff right this moment you're so specail if he really needed you he ought to call you you want to positioned your self available yet no longer the position you do have sex with him and he tells you he doesnt love you
2016-11-02 07:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your new life, you still have memories to look back on.
2007-02-04 07:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by funnelweb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with yer heart hun
2007-02-04 07:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in touch, you're both young, who knows what might happen later on...
2007-02-04 07:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋