im 13 years old. and i am like that one girl confused. i know im bi because i have feelings for both males and females. i just cant find anyone my age. what should i do????????????????
2007-02-04 07:19:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are pretty young to have to make this decision. Give yourself some time and don't worry about making any concrete choices about your sexuality until you are old enough. At this point there won't be any indecision you will know beyond any shadow of a doubt.
2007-02-04 07:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you may bypass on jerry springer and tell the international your gay or bi, ....regardless of you're. you may continually make new pals with different gays. You cost your friendships yet yet you're doing all your persons a dis-provider via preserving secrets and techniques approximately your self and not being real to who you're. you're misrepresenting your self. So via no longer being a stable chum to them what might you care approximately what they concept-approximately you? fact is that in the event that they're indignant at then you definately they do no longer seem to be your persons. Be gay and enable the international be attentive to, then you definately will hit upon pals that settle for that.
2016-10-01 10:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*starred*
I actually disagree with Deirdre O -- you probably know what you want even though you're young because when I was 13 I knew that I was way more attracted to guys than girls.
My only advice is to talk to someone, get to know them and once you're more comfortable with them and if it feels right ask them if they're interested.
I just noticed that there are so many bad answers. Try to block those out and go with your heart, bud. This was not a choice and I'm sure you agree with me. I sure as hell didn't *choose* to be gay.
2007-02-04 08:47:29 · answer #3 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to find that Mr. Right and you certainly at the age where you appreciate your girl friends for the person they are, not the cool clothes and MP3 players they haul around. Give yourself time before proclaimimg your sexuality...and enjoy the appreciation you are feeling for your friends and let them know you think they are awesome. It's a choice to be bi or gay in my opinion and you can chose to love all your friends for who they are and start forming long-lasting relationships that will last until you are old and grey..and that happens faster than we care to admit. Just be happy with WHO you are and not what you MIGHT BE !!!!
2007-02-04 07:30:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sweethearty you are not bi. How is your family life? do you have a dad there? family that you can talk to? A pastor you can talk to? at 13 hun, you are just confused, dont buy into the hype that GOD made you that way, you just feel something, but its not a sexual attraction to male and females. It is tragic to hear such a young soul being pulled into a lewd lifestyle of direct rebellion against the unnmovable truth. You are a woman little lady. Seek some help right now. Give me you phone number and ill call for some help for you to seek.
2007-02-04 08:21:27 · answer #5 · answered by DODO 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You are what you are. Don't EVER let anyone tell you otherwise. You'll figure it out with time. Be yourself and really like yourself. You have a life in front of you, and don't let it be goverened by labels or societal pressure. When you get older you'll realize that there are PLENTY of people like you.
2007-02-04 07:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jason D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered joining a local support group in your area?
http://www.pflag.org/
Or maybe your schools guidance counselor?
Also, you might want to try joining this site if you think meeting people your own age online who are going through the same thing would be helpful?
http://www.mogenic.com/
2007-02-04 07:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
open yourself up. if you can tell people that you are bi. if you can't, try to make some friends online. just start off being friends and you never know.
2007-02-04 07:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
feelings alone cannot tell you that
reconsider it
thanks for the 2 pts
can you give any more?
2007-02-04 08:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you ever need to talk about it then email me colorswirl@yahoo.com
2007-02-04 08:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋