i went to my friends house to see her & was waiting in her room when her older sister came in & said that my friend was out & would be back in a few minutes do i mind if she waits with me i said no she asked me if i had ever practiced kissing with her sis i said yes we had she then told me that it was ok to practice with her too if i wanted then she kissed me a real kiss tounges & stuff
thing is i really liked it & kissed her back we kissed a long time & then we had to stop cos her bro was around but she told me that we should do it again soon I really really wanna
Does that make me a lessy???
2007-02-04 07:16:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im a 13yr old girl
a lessy is a lesbian duhh
2007-02-04 07:22:16 · update #1
i have been with boys & like them too
i think that mebbe after reading the answers im Bi
i think id like to be bi
2007-02-04 07:24:54 · update #2
If I was you I would have had my hand inside her knickers long ago . I just love girls & girly knickers
2007-02-06 05:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by The Heartbreaker. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm, how old is your friends sister? As you are only 13 i was just wondering what age she was. Its fine to experiment at your age most girls do but if this girl is a lot older like 18 plus then its a bit weird. I dont think kissing girls makes you a lesbian, Im asuming you are a virgin and havent had sex with either a male or a female so until you do i suppose you wont know. I wouldnt worry about it if you like it carry on but as i said above if your friends sister is a lot older than you she shouldn't be kissing you as it could be classed a bit perverted and by coming into a room and asking you questions like that she comes across as a bit of a weirdo! be careful.(if the girl isn't that much older then you then just enjoy it if you like it!!!)
2007-02-05 21:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by nicnac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it... If you like guys too maybe you are bi.
being 13 does not make all that difference...
It just means you should not go beyond kissing yet...
Thats not a moral thing its just like you dont gert in aracing car 5 minutes after starting driving lessosn... you get good at driving first.
Nothing wrong with being a lesbian or bi...
however being bi and a girl has many advantages... namesly you will learn more about your bodies responses...
Plus you can have fun kissing girls to pull boys
2007-02-04 10:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing feels nice. I don't think it necessarily means anything about whether you're a lessy or straight or bi. In my lifetime, I've kissed teenage boys (I'm a guy) who were terrific kissers, and they all grew up and got married and had kids. Outside of the UK and the US, guys do kiss guys affectionately and girls kiss girls. It's who you want to be with and have sex with that makes a difference.
Anyway, you are whatever you are, not what you do. OK?
2007-02-06 10:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesnt make you anything, you are still young and exploring your sexuality! If it feels right & you like this girl then go ahead with your feelings. You are just learning about all these new feelings you can experience & often people experiment with new things. It will take time to know if you will always have feelings for girls, boys or both but until then dont worry, just be carefull and stay safe.
2007-02-04 23:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you liked it then there is nothing to worry about but I would say that you are just experimenting at the moment so enjoy.
Dont worry about what anyone else thinks its how you feel that matters.
I am Bi and although not its not everyones cup of tea its what I like so just be happy.
2007-02-04 21:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by entertainer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 are obviously teenagers and are experimenting. It's your secret until the older sister tells. Where were the PARENTS?Who allowed you in the bedroom? You better beware of the sis, the bro and the parents!
2007-02-04 07:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its doesnt make you a lesbian at al.. your still young and your feelings and emotions are still growing with you... everyone experiments sometimes in their teen years and its ok.... you may see this as a experiment.. the older sister should noty of put you in that position as she herself may be more sexual aware than you and this will only confuse you.. my advice is steer clear from her for a while and see how you feel around lads..... if your bi then ok.. but im sure its just teen emotions maturing
2007-02-06 04:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, sounds like something I'd like to see!!
On a serious note though, if you do want to be with your friend's sister, you have to tell your friend, and no, it doesn't make you a lesbian. It was experimental I assume, go with what your happy with, and if that's bi, then fine!
2007-02-05 06:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by liljohnirwin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is question that can only you can answer. Sounds as if you are quite young and you have a long time to answer this question yourself.
I wouldnt classify you as a "lessy"..........more like "experimental".
2007-02-04 07:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.KnowNothing 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you need to be honest with yourself and state this clearly. Your friends older sister did not kiss you...you BOTH kissed. It takes 2 to kiss.
Bottom, line you need to tell the friend before going on any further.
2007-02-04 07:19:49 · answer #11 · answered by LM 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋