im a 20 yr old gay male who hasnt come out of the closet yet...im scared of what might be said and im afraid god will hate me for my love of penises..please help im sooo scared
2007-02-04 07:03:54 · 24 answers · asked by Randy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
According to the bible thumpers, God will hate the "fictional" you if you actually gobble or sit and spin on one of those penises you (and I do mean you) love to think about and write questions about.
The also fictional God supposedly already knows you are a penis lover - otherwise he wouldn't have also come up with the concept of sin. It couldn't be sin to be what he made you to be. But it was his sly pleasure to give you these things like a lovely tasty penis (and lovely juicy tasty warm vaginas), and give you the desire to use them, and then tell you you can't use them except when he says so. Talk about controlling! Look what he did to his only begotten son just for (or so I'm told) hanging around all these cross dressers, and a walking sex object named Mary (not his mother, the other Mary).
So be not scared and gobble and spin away. God (in the story anyway) will be disappointed if you don't.
2007-02-04 08:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Read what God himself tells you via the bible: John 3:16:
For God so loved the world (so including you!, including what everyone does wrong in this world, including all sins), that he sent his only born Son, so that EVERYONE WHO BELIEVES IN HIM should survive - Sorry, I'm Dutch, I don't know the litteral English text, so look it up in your own bible.
Think of God as a Father (not my idea, but agian: it's in the bible), The father wants everything that's best for the son. Sometimes the son does things the father wouldn't be enthusiastig about, but he'd still love his son. He'd still support the son, even if the son prefferred to study for artist instead of being a lawyer from Harvard (or whatever). As long as you don't do anything that will harm other people, God will support you.
Don't be afraid of what other might say. All of us gays have been there, and the biggest problem is the fear we have.
Again from the bible, Jesus wants to help us in the decision about how to live a proper life as a gay. Jesus says: Come to me, all who labour and are heave laden (everyone who thinks life is really hard), and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
Matthew chapter 11 verses 28 etc.
2007-02-04 08:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by leatherbiker040 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God hates no one. He already knows you're gay and coming out won't change anything. The Bible says love the sinner hate the sin so even Christians are in fault to hate sinners. Now, I won't comment on if homosexuality is a sin or not. I personally would find it very hard to say it is because it's been proven that people are born gay. Christian beliefs vary on how homosexuality is viewed, but no person should hate homosexuals even if they believe that the act is a sin or not. If they do, then they themselves are in violation of God's will. Let him who is without sin cast the first stone. I hope I answered your question without digressing too much.
2007-02-04 09:47:13 · answer #3 · answered by Liir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. God will always love you. You arent doing anything wrong. You should feel free to be who you are. Life isnt about weather you love penises or vaginas its about being a good person. Dont be scared, The only people that might hate you are ignorant, hypocritical, closed minded, scum sucking assholes! You are not hurting anyone, and you deserve to be loved as much as anyone else. Good luck to you.
2007-02-04 07:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by creyente98 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You know what ?
God already knows, you don't have to tell God, he/she made you just the way you are just like he/she made everyone and every living thing.
God loves all of us, God knows all of us he/she made us in her/his image that is why we are all shades of grey.
That is why you have black white yellow and brown people, that is why you have people born with handicaps and people born healthy. That is why people are born male and female and then with both male and female genitals.
God made us all unique and beautiful in his/her image rejoice in who you are.
Be good and kind don't hate or resent others, don't slight others don't let others stop you from being honest to your self and who you are.
You don't need to come out and I suggest you don't until you are feeling better about you, stronger more at ease and have more understanding of yourself and others and what to expect when you do come out.
Many people will be upset and they are in titled to their feelings and the time they need to move beyond and grow if they do.
You need to take care of you and know you are ok just the way you are.
2007-02-04 10:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is the one who created you, he can't possibly hate something he created, there's alot of us who are gay. The only thing I would worry about is telling those closer to you, after that no one else will matter.
2007-02-04 07:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by gayman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, HE is the one that made you what you are and HE loves everybody, please don't listen to all of these bible thumpers because they are picking and choosing the parts of the bible to quote, when it is VERY apparent that they have blatantly forgotten the part of the bible that quotes: JUDGE LEAST THEE BE JUDGED. Which means that they can't pass judgement on ANY-BODY because only GOD can do that.
2007-02-04 07:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
God made you gay, and he wants you to find love.
2007-02-04 08:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by sudonym x 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God already knows. He loves everyone.
2007-02-04 07:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋